i went to dinner last night and on my way out the hostess stopped to talk to me about my belly....she started to ask me just general questions that everyone asks and i guess i stepped back a lil and she saw my wholy belly and her tone towards me totally changed it went from "aw your so cute!" to "dang girl you're HUGE!!!!!!!!!!" and kept telling me how huge i was and that i look like i was gonna pop anyday and didnt look like i was 8 1/2 months pregnant that i looked like i was just gettin near my due date..AND then..she said the unthinkable (i already have self esteem issues with the weight i gained) she goes "girl you sure are big, you want me to grease the doorwary so you can fit through?" like...uh thanks, i laughed it off not to cause drama but dang, how freakin rude was she...i know i have a big belly (yay big baby) but she didnt have to go off on me like that and embarrase me...sheesh people need to learn boundaries
Re: how rude!
I can't believe someone would actually say that!!!
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Isla Penelope. 10.21.2010. 8# 3oz 21 inches
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4 Months 13# 6oz 25 inches
6 Months 14# 15oz 27 inches
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When someone says that to you just say, Thanks you too! and keep walking... but make sure you turn around to catch their reactions
This. I would have asked to speak to her manager. That was completely rude & uncalled for. My mouth actually fell open as I was reading this!