i am sorry

HRALFS

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done. 

 

 

luvdv8

The problem is it's hard to understand where you were coming from- most of the women on here have had m/cs, trouble getting pregnant, or scares in their pregnancies. We like to come here to talk it out, get advice, and support each other. It's a scary, emotional time in our lives and people like to feel like they have a sanctuary where they can talk about their fears and feelings without being judged- it's not always easy with all the hormones flying around, but generally people are good about it.

Hopefully this is a lesson learned- emotions are on high right now and people want to feel like they can talk about it, not hear how it's upsetting one person.

Rant over. I have a teething daughter who will need my attention in the morning.

vflipo

I would have said what I said regardless of my hormones. I'm not a big fan of apologies with a "but" attached to them either

luvdv8

vflipo:

I would have said the what I said regardless of my hormones. I'm not a big fan of apologies with a "but" attached to them either

Funny- my DH says that if an apology goes for longer than the words "I'm sorry" it's not a really apology.

HRALFS

vflipo:

I would have said what I said regardless of my hormones. I'm not a big fan of apologies with a "but" attached to them either

where is the but? 

jessjo04

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done. 

 

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

vflipo

HRALFS:

vflipo:

I would have said what I said regardless of my hormones. I'm not a big fan of apologies with a "but" attached to them either

where is the but? 

Your request in the last paragraph. You don't have to say "but" for it to be there.

HRALFS

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done.

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Ok i hope to never feel that pain as well. I agree that I should not have posted OP. But if I am being chastised for that while I have already said sorry. then really ....its not me anymore 

missmiss307

Just take ownership for your mistake and quit trying to place blame. I was bemused by your other post but didn't think as much of it as people who have faced pregnancy problems may have. But you are not really even apologizing, you are trying to defend yourself.

~adamwife~

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done.

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Ok i hope to never feel that pain as well. I agree that I should not have posted OP. But if I am being chastised for that while I have already said sorry. then really ....its not me anymore 

I think you need to just let it go.

HRALFS

I COMPLETELY agree, as do ya'll. How many times do I need to say Im sorry?

HRALFS

missmiss307:

Just take ownership for your mistake and quit trying to place blame. I was bemused by your other post but didn't think as much of it as people who have faced pregnancy problems may have. But you are not really even apologizing, you are trying to defend yourself.

ummm really?? I aplogized 1000 times. read back. no blame placed, i took it. u are wrong 

HRALFS

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done. 

 

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

jessjo04

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done. 

 

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Yeah, I saw what that said. I'll choose to believe that a 15 year old boy came into your house and grabbed your computer and made that comment...

HRALFS

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done. 

 

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Yeah, I saw what that said. I'll choose to believe that a 15 year old boy came into your house and grabbed your computer and made that comment...

yep my ss did wow

~adamwife~

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done. 

 

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Yeah, I saw what that said. I'll choose to believe that a 15 year old boy came into your house and grabbed your computer and made that comment...

I saw that too. 

Karma35

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done. 

 

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Yeah, I saw what that said. I'll choose to believe that a 15 year old boy came into your house and grabbed your computer and made that comment...

yep my ss did wow

 

Really?

HRALFS

I mean are you for real? I am a real person that is not at all crazy. 

mrs_b_2007

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done.

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Ok i hope to never feel that pain as well. I agree that I should not have posted OP. But if I am being chastised for that while I have already said sorry. then really ....its not me anymore 

you are a giant douche.

HRALFS

mrs_b_2007:

HRALFS:

jessjo04:

HRALFS:

listen, my post was not intended to stir up problems.

I am really sorry if I offended anyone, esp those of you with m/c.honestly. I am a woman just like the rest of you.

I did not mean to hurt anyone !!

Please just try to understand where I was coming from and not judge like you have already done.

 

I think you were doing good until that last part. Its hard to accept an apology when you blame the people you are apologizing to. I can't understand what its like to have a m/c (and hope to never know), but as someone who has had worrisome symptoms, its doesnt feel good to have someone say its annoying that I would express that worry and ask for help.

Ok i hope to never feel that pain as well. I agree that I should not have posted OP. But if I am being chastised for that while I have already said sorry. then really ....its not me anymore 

you are a giant douche.

lovely. ditto to u, 

tinklinz

I agree with all the ladies here. An apology is not an apology if you go on to defend yourself and when we don't jump at forgiving you you turn on us again.You feel wronged or slighted because we all told you how out of line your OP was, in addition to this one. Perhaps a simple "I'm sorry" would have gotten you a lot farther. 

How about just letting it die? Maybe lay low and lurk for a while before posting again so in the future we might actually listen to a non-ridiculous thing you have to say. Or when you actually have a worrisome question and *GASP* your doctor just isn't available or is completely unhelpful, and you're scared and worried and you turn to us, we don't flame you again...

But we probably will. 

 

HRALFS

I WAS trying to let it die, Here is another thing, Please do not tell me to lurk b/c I have lurked for 2 years. And I did say I was sorry 4000 times. You should read back to reference.And like I said in PP if I have  a worrisome problem I will NOT, NOT (is that clear?) talk to internet strangers about it  rather than speak with my OB, PCP, etc Thats my flippin problem!!!!! Who cares if my physician is not always available?  yall bitches are crazy

MrsManning10

HRALFS:

I WAS trying to let it die, Here is another thing, Please do not tell me to lurk b/c I have lurked for 2 years. And I did say I was sorry 4000 times. You should read back to reference.And like I said in PP if I have  a worrisome problem I will NOT, NOT (is that clear?) talk to internet strangers about it  rather than speak with my OB, PCP, etc Thats my flippin problem!!!!! Who cares if my physician is not always available?  yall bitches are crazy

I don't understand why you even want to be here anymore, with all of us "crazy b*tches"???   Obviously you aren't getting the point that people are making, which is that when you end your so-called apology by accusing others of being in the wrong, you really aren't apologizing at all.  You are simply making excuses for yourself.  And, at this point, nobody cares to hear your excuses.  And, calling everyone "crazy b*tches" further shows how you don't actually think you did anything wrong. 

tinklinz

Damn skippy, don't forget it. Go away if you don't like it. 

 

tinklinz

*Abby*:

I don't understand why you even want to be here anymore, with all of us "crazy b*tches"???   Obviously you aren't getting the point that people are making, which is that when you end your so-called apology by accusing others of being in the wrong, you really aren't apologizing at all.  You are simply making excuses for yourself.  And, at this point, nobody cares to hear your excuses.  And, calling everyone "crazy b*tches" further shows how you don't actually think you did anything wrong. 

THIS!

vflipo

This is great, an apology and a "yall b!tches are crazy" all in one thread... from the same person. Klassy

lilbit923

Yyyyyeah, I read your first post trying to understand what the big freaking deal was about this one. And wow. You really ticked off a bunch on momma's.

I will go ahead and say I am one of those crazy bi!tches you were referring to. I have had several miscarriages and each one of them was different. The symptoms came on differently but the end result result was the same. Still another baby lost and it's a piece of your heart that will never come back. The mourning never goes away. It doesn't make it easier to absorb and for someone who has never been through one hasn't a clue as to what we've gone through.

I would thank you kindly to keep your thoughts to yourself. If there is a post that annoys you, move on and don't read it. For future reference do not comment on what you yourself have never experienced nor send out judgement against those that have. Do that and we'll all get along great.

luvdv8

cruelsound:

vflipo:

This is great, an apology and a "yall b!tches are crazy" all in one thread... from the same person. Klassy

She's a moron. The fact that she actually types out "ya'll" is all the proof I need.

I thought this too- who types ya'll?!?!? It even shows up as being an incorrect word!

MrsTotty

OP - your apology sucks. 

PPer - Don't be hatin' on those of us who type out the word y'all.  I do it all the time ... it's the Southern Belle in me  ::bats eyelashes:: 

missmiss307

Yes, Totty, but you at least spell "y'all" correctly when you type it out.

MrsTotty

missmiss307:

Yes, Totty, but you at least spell "y'all" correctly when you type it out.

This is true ... lol.   

lilbit923

MrsTotty:

OP - your apology sucks. 

PPer - Don't be hatin' on those of us who type out the word y'all.  I do it all the time ... it's the Southern Belle in me  ::bats eyelashes:: 

I say it all the time too and thank you for spelling y'all correctly. Love it!!

tinklinz

MrsTotty:

OP - your apology sucks. 

PPer - Don't be hatin' on those of us who type out the word y'all.  I do it all the time ... it's the Southern Belle in me  ::bats eyelashes:: 

Yes, but you spell it correctly. She's a frigging idiot. That goes without saying though.  

Edit: I'm retarded, didn't see the other kudos for the correct spelling. Still, "y'all" is cute. "Ya'll" sounds like you're choking.  

jennaden

I posted yesterday about a possible m/c. The one thing that irks me is your assumption that those of us with scares are consulting people online rather than their ob. Did it ever occur to you that people might do both? I have been in constant contact with my ob. However, they don't tell me who else has been through this and been okay. I found it very reassuring to talk to people on here when I was flipping out with worry at home. I appreciate your apology. However, I do hope in the future you take more time thinking about what you are saying and who it affects before jumping to conclusions.

magdalina.h

Well then don't read any part of my story..............