S/O....I am dreading post partum sex!

eyenerd

Mentally, heck yes!  I would be ready and willing.  However, last time i had a vaginal delivery and even though my baby was small (5lbs 12 oz) i still had a 2 degree tear (she did have a big head though!).  That sucker hurt.....

....for a long time.  I think we finally tried at about 8 weeks pp, and i thought i would die!!!!   I swear i had tears in my eyes.   After about 4 times of having it pp (probably took a few months), it did get better, but it took a long time in between.  

Hopefully with #2 things won't be as bad............. 

LVBlvd

With DD, pp sex wasn't painful at all (I had a C-Section).  DH did say - wow, I have never done it with a girl in a nursing bra.  I almost smacked him : )

I am trying for the life of me to imagine WHEN we will this time.  I am thinking it will be on our 5th anniversary vacation summer of '11.  LOL. 

OrangeSmoke

Sex?  What's that?  I can't even imagine doing it right now.

Poor DH.

eyenerd

LOL!!!!!  I don't know when we will find time either sometimes!

I was telling DH that i almost checked that i wanted to get my tubes tied when i was admitted a few weeks ago because i am so done with IVF and pregnancy complications.  Then i said, but what is the point, with the horrible sperm quality and my PCOS I am not too worried.  Then i looked at him and said, oh, and we would ACTUALLY have to have sex to get pregnant again! We both just laughed!