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Thank you friend but, No I will not be attending your shower.

Ashley858Ashley858 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Thank you for inviting me only via facebook, and not letting me know any other way that it was coming up. There are a couple of reasons I will not be attending.

1) you insisted on talking to me only about your wife's pregnancy even though you knew I just had a miscarriage, and asked you not to bring it up all the time.

2) it is my 2nd EDD

3) it is the day after my birthday.

And 4) Because when I actually attempted hanging out with you two on the 4th of July, the first think you did when I got to your house was shove u/s pictures in my face.

Sorry to say, I will not be attending.

3 Early Miscarriages 4 rounds of Clomid BFP = 11/16/10 ~ EDD July 29th 2011 Image and video hosting by TinyPic
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  • jen629jen629 member
    what a jerk..I wouldn't go either
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    As Michelle Tanner would say, "How Rude!"
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    I wouldn't go either. I'm sorry you have to deal with them (((hugs)))
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    What ignorant people...I wouldn't go either - stupid people suck!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) I wouldn't be going either.

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  • DoingItRightDoingItRight member
    There is no way that I would attend that shower.
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    There is no way I'd go either.  I'm sorry they are so ignorant. 
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    Big friend fail. I'm sorry.

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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    Yikes, I wouldn't be going either. 
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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    I don't blame you one bit!
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  • Mocha GirlMocha Girl

    imagebbhalphen:
    As Michelle Tanner would say, "How Rude!"

    LMAO! My baby sister (who has Downs and is now 20) was obsessed with Full House - she even named the family dog "Joey". The other options were Uncle Jesse or Danny Tanner Big Smile

    I agree with bbhalphen (and Michelle Tanner) how rude!

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  • BeachColeBeachCole
    They sound like winners. Yeah, no way in hell I'd go either. 
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