TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

You know how m/c is "contagious"

well apparently so is being laid off.  Friend Fail.
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April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks

Re: You know how m/c is "contagious"

  • What a twat.

    ::hugs::

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  • ((hugs))

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  • ugh - that's crazy.
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  • That stinks! What happened?
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  • Thanks ladies.  I've had a group of friends who have been avoiding me, but I had to see them tonight for a meeting.  Come to find out they have been avoiding me because I'm laid off and they are worried about their own jobs and don't want to hear how tough the job market is.  One was a good friend that I really thought I could count on.
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    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • That's awful. I am sorry you are dealing with that. {hugs}
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  • That's ridiculous.  I guess they don't want any support for themselves if they get laid off?
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  • I'm so sorry:( That is so flipping selfish (and immature) of them. It sounds like you might be better off without them. ((hugs))
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  • imageKristysRedBarn:
    Thanks ladies.  I've had a group of friends who have been avoiding me, but I had to see them tonight for a meeting.  Come to find out they have been avoiding me because I'm laid off and they are worried about their own jobs and don't want to hear how tough the job market is.  One was a good friend that I really thought I could count on.

     I can't even CONCEIVE of this- it's totally obnoxious. I'm really sorry Kristy. People suck.

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  • Boooo!  Bad friend!
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  • That is terrible. I guess they weren't friends after all. I'm sorry Kristy (((hugs)))

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  • I'm so sorry.  From someone who was just laid off yesterday, I can't imagine having douchey friends to deal with.  you don't deserve that.

    (((hugs)))

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    imageKristysRedBarn:
    Thanks ladies.  I've had a group of friends who have been avoiding me, but I had to see them tonight for a meeting.  Come to find out they have been avoiding me because I'm laid off and they are worried about their own jobs and don't want to hear how tough the job market is.  One was a good friend that I really thought I could count on.

     I can't even CONCEIVE of this- it's totally obnoxious. I'm really sorry Kristy. People suck.

     This.  I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this on top of being laid off.  Ugh.  People just suck.

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  • Oh my. What a terrible bunch of "friends". They SUCK!

    (whereas, you so clearly ROCK)

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  • I'm sorry they are being so crappy. I'd be pissed and would let them know.
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  • imageKristysRedBarn:
    Thanks ladies.  I've had a group of friends who have been avoiding me, but I had to see them tonight for a meeting.  Come to find out they have been avoiding me because I'm laid off and they are worried about their own jobs and don't want to hear how tough the job market is.  One was a good friend that I really thought I could count on.

    Wow.  I'm so sorry.  That's unbelievable and just beyond hurtful and ridiculous.  And so self-centered.  Things like this make me wonder what the world is honestly coming to. 

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  • I'm so sorry this is happening. I have to admit when I was laid off for several months about 9 years ago, I definitely felt like friends kind of avoided me. In fact, I think I felt more support after the m/c's because by that point, I'd had several friends who had had their own losses and could relate w/o fear of "catching" it. (((Hugs!!))
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  • I'm sorry Kristy. That's crazy.

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  • imageKristysRedBarn:
    Thanks ladies.  I've had a group of friends who have been avoiding me, but I had to see them tonight for a meeting.  Come to find out they have been avoiding me because I'm laid off and they are worried about their own jobs and don't want to hear how tough the job market is.  One was a good friend that I really thought I could count on.

     That's ridiculous!!! I'm sorry you have to deal with that!! 

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  • that is awful! It's disappointing when friends turn out to be total fair weather butt heads. I'm sorry.
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