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what's the most random thing to set you off?

Today, it was a pregnant woman wearing a maternity shirt I have tucked away in my closet.  No tears, but I have been thinking about it all day, and how jealous I am that she gets to wear that shirt when I don't.

What seemingly little things set you off?

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Re: what's the most random thing to set you off?

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    The dumbest thing that ever set me off was after my first m/c.  It was a day or two after it was discovered, and DH and my mom were watching that old Jeff Foxworthy comedy thing where they did skits.  One of them was about a woman in labor.  It sent me into complete hysterics, lol.  It wasn't anything terrible, but I was jealous of this fictional woman in labor.
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    I have a co worker in the office next to me that is KU so she does things daily that make me mad. The latest thing is her pissing and moaning because she thinks she's having a boy and she really wants it to be a girl.  She's actually upset that she feels like this baby will be a boy. Stupid FH's don't realize how lucky they are to just have a healthy baby!

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    I use to have a coworker who would cry and complain that it was taking so long to get KU, they only tried for a couple of months.  So I lent her TCOYF hoping she would learn something and STFU.  She returned it to me with a little sticky note on it that said, "It worked!".  I already knew she was pg, she announced before the pee stick was even dry, so it was no surprise or anything, but the note just about pushed me over the edge.
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    Watching my SO play with other people's babies. I'm glad that he's comfortable enough that he can do it, but it should be OUR baby, kwim?
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    Seeing incompetent mothers. The ones that let their children run around in mud with just a diaper on. Oh and especially the mothers that dont even care about the weather..."my newborn wont need a sweater, hat or blanket..it's only 50 degrees outside"
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    Oh and the other day DH and I were at Target when we saw a lady with 3 toddlers and a newborn in a wrap carrier. He turns to me and says "I'm not an expert but I don't think she's using that the right way." The baby was vertical and hanging off of her.
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    I recently overheard a woman at the park complaining that she got KU the first month they started TTC.  She said that "it took all the fun out of it".  I cried on the way home and I still don't know if it was anger or jealousy.
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    I also get really pissed at the incompetent mothers. I saw a woman in Target a couple weeks ago with a toddler in the cart and then a newborn in an infant seat just wailing, and she was completely ignoring him. Just strolling through the aisles listening to him scream. I wanted to yell at her, "Hold him! Feed him! Change his diaper! Helloooooo!"

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    Yesterday my DH was lint rolling cat hair off my shirt for me and he bounced my boob on accident. He laughed a little and asked if that hurt. It didn't but I couldn't help but think that just a little over a week ago it really would have. This realization made me absolutely bawl. Dh instantly followed my train of thought and began to feverantly apologize. This in turn made me feel bad for making him feel so guilty over something so insignificant anf I started crying even harder. I felt like a hot mess.
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