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Whoever this is... (TBPS related)

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(Abortion related - don't click if you are uncomfortable with that.)

I don't judge you, I'm so sorry you've been through something so terrible, and I am sending you ::huge hugs::

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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    I would never judge!!!! (((Huge hugs)))


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  • jodyrmjodyrm member
    Hugs from me too!
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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    (((huge hugs)))  That is an awful thing to go through, and of course I would never judge for that. 
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  • mystikaljessmystikaljess

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

    This.  

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  • michroccmichrocc member

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

    This. 

    I'm so sorry you're in so much pain.  I can't imagine.  The last thing I would ever do is judge you for doing what is and/or was best for you.  I hate that such a terrible thing happened to you. 

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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member
    I saw that and wanted to post. Nobody would ever judge you for something like that. and if they do, I'll beat them the _fuck_ up, we're here to support you Left HugRight Hug
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  • GummybearGummybear
    That is so sad. Huge hugs to whoever that is. I would never judge anyone who had an abortion. For any reason. But for that? All the love and prayers in the world sweetie.
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  • jen629jen629 member
    I agree I would never judge anyone for that {{{HUGS}}}}
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  • Lkat17Lkat17 member
    Oh gosh, I would never ever judge someone for making that choice. I'm so sorry you had to go through that! (((Hugs)))

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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member
    imagemichrocc:

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

    This. 

    I'm so sorry you're in so much pain.  I can't imagine.  The last thing I would ever do is judge you for doing what is and/or was best for you.  I hate that such a terrible thing happened to you. 

    :::::::::::::::::huge hugs::::::::::::::::::::

    Definitely this. 

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  • millejj1millejj1 member

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

    This! This! This! I think it's awful that rape victims end up stigmatized and afraid to tell their story.

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) whoever posted this we would never judge you for that.

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  • ej708ej708 member
    I agree with everyone else.  I'm so sorry you've had to go through that.  Huge ((hugs))!
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  • ikissedthecookikissedthecook
    Agreed. If you ever need to talk, please, please PM me. Nobody should ever feel shamed into not talking about that. (((Big hugs)))
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  • schenkertobeschenkertobe

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

     

    This 1000%.  

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  • tigers413tigers413

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

    This 100%

    (((Hugs)))

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  • frogyiefrogyie
    I would never judge.  That is a horrible thing to got through.  Hugs. 
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  • kmountkmount member
    agree completely.  It's a personal choice whatever the reason behind it.  ((hugs))
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  • CarrieLeigh84CarrieLeigh84 member
    Lots of love to whoever this is. No judging from me.
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    HUGE hugs to whoever this is...I am so sorry you had to go through such a terrible thing and feel shamed into hiding it...I would never judge you - I am just so sorry it happened....HUGS!
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  • Fififa21Fififa21 member
    No judgement from me. I?m so sorry that you had to go through such a terrible situation. Sending big hugs your way! We are all here for you

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  • MIZZOU527MIZZOU527 member

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

    This...100% this!!!  {{HUGS}}

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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    imageeminbmore:

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    (Abortion related - don't click if you are uncomfortable with that.)

    I don't judge you, I'm so sorry you've been through something so terrible, and I am sending you ::huge hugs::

    I will even add that last year, a TTCALer told us that she'd been raped and had an abortion. She received nothing but love and support from everyone on the board. So the reassurance you're reading is NOT just hypothetical, anonymous there-there-ing you. It's the absolute truth.

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  • Lissa832Lissa832 member
    imageeminbmore:

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    (Abortion related - don't click if you are uncomfortable with that.)

    I don't judge you, I'm so sorry you've been through something so terrible, and I am sending you ::huge hugs::

    This, definitely. I thought the same thing when I read it.

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  • AGFasoAGFaso
    I'm so sorry hun, please know we would never judge you (( hugs ))
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  • ashleyy0219ashleyy0219
    Absolutely no judgment here, nothing but the biggest hugs.
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  • ashleyrsotomayorashleyrsotomayor member

    I second all the above comments. That must be a terrible thing to go through and I am so sorry you had to. I would never judge someone for that. I can't even imagine what you went through. Lots of love!

     

    By the way, where did this come from exactly? I am confused.

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  • Sunflower730Sunflower730 member

    no judgement. ((hugs))

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  • ashleyrsotomayorashleyrsotomayor member
    By the way, what is TBPS?
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  • PrincessDi80PrincessDi80
    I would never judge this person...in fact I want to kill the bastard penis that hurt her like this!
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  • hking76hking76 member

    imageambrandau2:
    Would never in a thousand years judge at all for that. Huge, huge hugs to whoever this is.

     

    This exactly.  HUGE [[hugs]]

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  • leneae10leneae10 member

    imagePrincessDi80:
    I would never judge this person...in fact I want to kill the bastard penis that hurt her like this!

    THIS.  I'm so sorry she had to endure something so painful, physically and emotionally.  ((HUGS))

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