Im 12 weeks pregnant. About a month ago we found out that at the end of August my Marine husband is being PCS'ed to Japan...without me. We have no idea why I'm not on the orders and we were told that it will TRY to be changed...no guarantees. This is our first pregnancy. Im having a really hard time dealing with this knowing he will be absent for 2 years, so he will miss the first year and a half of our baby's life. I can't come to terms with this and can't understand why they are not putting me on his orders. Any advice or suggestions? I need help.