Pregnant after a Loss

Update-Bad News

First I want to thank all of you for thoughts and prayers, they meant the world to us. Last nigt around 7pm I started with a high temperature. we had an ultrasound done and it showed that while baby was still alive, there was no fluid at all in the placenta. Around 9pm I had a full blown fever so they put me on antibiotics. The fever wasn't getting better and I started to get delirious and they determined I had an infection in my placenta so they decided to induce labour. they started the induction at 12am and at 130am my son was born still. it happened so fast and I was in so much pain and completely delirious so I didn't get to hold him, but they took pictures and I will get his clothes and footprints. I feel oddly peaceful. We meet with the funeral home tomorrow, and we'll go from there. I should be discharged tonight unless there are any issues. I will be around to check up on you all, please excuse me if I don't post much for a while, but I will be thinking of you and wish you all nothing but the best. love jennifer
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  • So sorry for the loss of your little boy--that is such heartbreaking news!  Please take good care of yourself and I hope that your feelings of peacefulness continues.
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  • Words cannot express how truly sorry I am. I know I don't know you but if there is anything I can do please let me know. I will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer.

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  • I'm so sorry Jennifer. 

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  • Oh no, oh, sweetie, I'm so so so very sorry.  My heart is just broken for you and your family. 

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  • I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I am so, so sorry. How awful for you and your family. I hope your health is okay and that you continue to feel peace. Thought, prayers and hugs to you.
  • (((hugs))) I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you so bad. I'll continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your little boy. You and your family will remain in my prayers.
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  • I am so incredibely sorry for your loss Jennifer.  I hope the infection is cleared up so you are physically ok soon.  You and your husband and your little boy are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I don't know what else to say besides I am so, so sorry this happened. My heart aches for you. You, your DH and sweet boy will be in my prayers. I hope you are surrounded by the love and support of family and friends in the days to come.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your precious baby boy.  Your family will continue to be in my thoughts.  Sending lots of love and strength to you to get through the days ahead.
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  • I am so so sorry to hear this news.  I don't even know what to say.  I am just so sorry.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I am so terribly sorry for your loss.  Please take care of yourself during this difficult time and know that we are all her for support whenever you need it.
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  • I am so very sorry to read this post, it is just devastating to hear.  I will be praying for you and your DH to get through this very difficult time.  Please know that we are all thinking about you  HUGS
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  • My heart is breaking for you.  I'm so sorry.
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  • Oh, Jennifer, "I'm sorry" just doesn't convey all that is in my heart for you and your husband right now.  My prayers will be with you in the days ahead.
  • Oh honey.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  My heart completely broke reading this.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  I'm wishing you a very speedy recovery.

    Lots of huge (((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

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  • My prayers are with you.
  • I am so very sorry.  Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
  • I am so sorry for your loss Jenn. You and your DH are in mt thoughts.
  • I'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and your DH. My T&Ps will be with you guys during this time.
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  • I am so, so sorry. There are no words.

  • I am so sorry for your loss. {hugs}
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  • Oh sweetie, I'm so so sorry for the loss of your sweet little boy.

    I'll be sending you and your family lots of prayers for peace during this awful, unfair time.

    Please know you can come on here if you need ANYTHING or just to vent when the time comes.

    We are all here for you ((HUGE HUGS))

  • I am so very sorry. You and your family continue to be in my T&P.  I hope you recover quickly and we're here for you anytime
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  • It was so hard to read your story. I am truly sorry for your loss. T&P to you and your family.
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  • I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so truly sorry for your loss.  You and your family will be in my prayers. 
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  • I am incredibly sorry for the loss of your precious little boy.  We are all here for you, whenever you are ready. 
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  • So sorry to hear about your loss. My heart truely breaks for you. I wish for nothing but peace and comfort during your time of healing. Sending T&P's to you and your family. Hugs!!!!!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Take care of yourself right now and do whatever it takes for you to feel peace and normalcy in the moment.  ((HUGS)) sweetie. 
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  • I am so very sorry sweetie.  ((HUGS)).  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so very very sorry. This is heart breaking.
  • I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart is broken for you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. 
  • Oh my goodness, I am so, so sorry.
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  • I am so incredibly saddened to read your update.  I hope you find peace that your son is not suffering.  I am truly, truly sorry for your loss.  My T&P are with you and your family.
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  • I am so, so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that will console you. Just know that if you ever need to talk, I'm here for you. I've  been exactly where you are, and I just wish I could give you the biggest hug in the world.

    Lots of love to you and your family. 

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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.  Continued thoughts and prayers to you and your DH.
  • I am so so sorry, you will be in my thoughts and prayers ((HUGS)) 
  • I'm so very sorry for the loss of your son. My heart just breaks for you and your family.
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