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I got into a really stupid fight with DH this morning

I hate it when we fight about stupid shiit.  I am almost too embarrassed to even tell you about it because it was that silly and petty.

DH and I work together and our work is doing a salsa competition today.  I didn't enter because I really didn't feel like making homemade salsa.  I found out last night that DH entered when he asked me to make the salsa for him.  He bought all the ingredients but didn't want to chop them up.  I reluctantly made it even though I was kind of piissed about it.

So, this morning I ask DH what he is going to present the salsa in.  Judging is based on presentation and taste.  I don't think my salsa is all that great so in order to win we need a killer presentation.  He says" I don't know, probably just some tupperware."  I got really mad because not only did I make the salsa, I now had to find something (better than tupperware) to put it in as I was leaving for work.

We both started yelling, I was mad - he was mad.  Then, he tells me that he doesn't even care about winning he was just making it for fun.  That set me off even more because I busted my ass on it so I want to try to win the $100 prize.

I know that I was being petty but it really iritates me when I have to do everything for him.  Sometimes I feel like I have two kids.  There was a reason I didn't enter the contest - I didn't want to mess with it. 

Of course, now I feel bad because it was such a stupid fight.  If I am this piissy before started IVF meds what I am going to be like in a couple of weeks?  LOL!

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  • Rebel I'm sorry about the fight.  I love how he said he was just making it for fun when we all know he really had no intention of ever making the salsa.   I hope YOU win the $100.00 and buy something for your self!

  • sorry Reb!  IF really makes us testy too over the stupidest thing.  This morning DH said "well I guess it's because you didn't get the progesterone in time" to why my temps were going down.  I wanted to punch him.  It felt like he was blaming me for losing a possible pregnancy (mind you we have no idea if it took in the first place).  He apologized...but I'm still making him pay for it! IF is so stressful.  It's hard to see past the daily struggles, decisions, disappointments.  But when you get through it...you'll be stronger for it.  I say go buy some chips and present them to him when he gets home with a big goofy smile on your face and says something clever like "hope you brought the salsa".
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  • ((hugs)) Reb...I am always in that boat w/ DH. I feel and I always say I have 2 kids. I don't think you were in the wrong for being upset but yea maybe it should have esculated to this. Honestly it would have for me and MH also. Sorry you had a bad start for a Friday.
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  • Reb, I know exactly what you mean!  DH and I argue about stupid stuff sometimes and I want to kick myself afterwards but really, why can't he do stuff for himself??  Why is everything my responsibility??

    Sorry you guys fought :(

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  • imagemrs.monica:
    sorry Reb!  IF really makes us testy too over the stupidest thing.  This morning DH said "well I guess it's because you didn't get the progesterone in time" to why my temps were going down.  I wanted to punch him.  It felt like he was blaming me for losing a possible pregnancy (mind you we have no idea if it took in the first place).  He apologized...but I'm still making him pay for it! IF is so stressful.  It's hard to see past the daily struggles, decisions, disappointments.  But when you get through it...you'll be stronger for it.  I say go buy some chips and present them to him when he gets home with a big goofy smile on your face and says something clever like "hope you brought the salsa".

    I hate stupid fights.  Sorry about your temp drop.

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  • This would have irritated me even if we weren't dealing with IF. MH is always inviting people over and then I stress myself out cleaning, cooking, and get mad at him that I am stressed Don't understand why these otherwise awesome men do stupid stuff like this.
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  • imageinlovewithB:
    This would have irritated me even if we weren't dealing with IF. MH is always inviting people over and then I stress myself out cleaning, cooking, and get mad at him that I am stressed Don't understand why these otherwise awesome men do stupid stuff like this.

    I hear ya! 

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  • Sorry about your fight.  I know the feeling.  I get tired of feeling like Ihave to do everything.  This is typically why DH fight.  And when I am having one of my off days from IF, I always say I don't know why I get upset about not having a kid, I already have one.!
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