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BFN 13 dpo - unexpectedly sad

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We have been trying since March on our own and for some stupid reason I thought it would work - why - I have no freakin clue!!!  This cycle we had perfectly TI and ughhh!!!  I wonder if DH's slight MFI has gotten worse.  We are all set to do an FET this next cycle so I'm trying to to be too down, but I guess there's still part of me that was holding out hope to just get pregnant on my own.  :(

Here's to hoping the FET works out.

TTC#1 since Feb 07 with PCOS and mild MFI
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart) Our first love and loss 7/2/07

3 cycles clomid TI = BFNs
3 cycles clomid Ovidrel IUI = BFNs
6/27/08 Surprise BFP = chemical pg
IVF#1 July 08 BFP @7dp3dt
TTC #3 since February 2010
FET Sept. and Oct. 2010=BFN's
IVF#2 June 2011=BFP

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Re: BFN 13 dpo - unexpectedly sad

  • mama_cito95mama_cito95 member
    It was worth the try, and I'm sure you might have wondered "what if..." had you not tried on your own.  Sorry about your BFN, but GL with the FET.
    2nd ectopic resulted in loss of tube. HSG revealed remaining tube is "severely torqued".
    IVF #1: ER 03/29/10; ET 04/01/10: transferred 2 embies; Beta #1 (9dp3dt)- 45; Beta #2 (11dp3dt)- 91= BFP
    FET#1: ET 04/18/12: transferred 4 embies; Beta #1: >2 = BFN
    IVF #2: ER 06/20/12; ET 6/25/12: transferred 2 embies; Beta #1 on 7/5/12= BFN
    8/16: hysteroscopy for polyp removal
    11/11: hysteroscopy #2 for yet another polyp removal
    FET#2: ET 12/15/12: transferred 3 embies; Beta #1 (9dp5dt): 12/24/12: 426; Beta #2 (11dp5dt): 845= BFP
    u/s 1/9= triplets!; miscarried all three on 1/10/13...

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  • SeaSoulSeaSoul member
    I'm sorry for your disappointed...heck, even *I* with a DH who has 0 sperm still hoped every month.  I hope next month's FET works like a charm!
    Childhood cancer (DH) + chemo + radiation = 0 sperm.
    LO #1 - 1 unmedicated/self-monitored IUI w/ donor sperm.
    LO #2 - 1 m/c, 2 BFNs, 4th IUI worked (unmedicated/self-monitored with new donor sperm).
    Life is beautiful!

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  • malloryo85malloryo85
    It's perfectly normal to be sad and to hope that it could happen on it's own. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for a great FET!
    IUI # 1 on 1/19, Beta 2/1 = BFN, Hysteroscopy on 2/15= 5 polyps removed, and cervix cleared, IUI #2 on 4/15 = BFP, Beta#1 on 4/30 @ 15 dpiui= 279, Beta #2 on 5/9 @24dpiui = 10,154, U/S on 8/5 = TWO GIRLS! Born 10/16 at 28 weeks. Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • LisaandBryanLisaandBryan
    I'm sorry. I hope you have success with the FET.
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  • CourtedCourted
    I am sorry!  I know that is disapointing.  It is always worth the try ti try on your own...I really hope the FET brings you better news.
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    After 21 cycles, and severe MFI, we finally did it with IVF #1 w/ICSI! Nico arrived 12/3/08!!!
    TTC for #2: IVF w/ICSI #2-4/17/10-BFN; IVF w/ICSI #3; 7/4/10-BFP!!! Beta #1- 96; Beta #2-528; Beta #3- 7371; 6w,5d-blited ovum=D&C :(
    IUI #2 1/10/11-BFN; IUI #3 2/18/11-BFN
    IVF #4 w/ICSI & PICSI ER 5/13/11, ET 5/1/118-BFP!! Natalee arrived on 1/23/12!!!!

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  • TheSkimmyTheSkimmy member
    Hugs... It's not easy no matter what the future plans are.
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  • beebabybeebaby member
    i'm sorry.  BFNs are always hard.  good luck with your FET and keep us posted.
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