TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

So, I comment a lot on PGAL. Is that weird?

I miss my KU'ed TTCAL friends :(  And I feel like I have answers to some of the questions I see on there, and I want to congratulate people who have good news, and you know... that kind of stuff.  Is it weird that I'm over there though? I don't want to be like some strange not pregnant stalker chick. 

Sigh.  

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Re: So, I comment a lot on PGAL. Is that weird?

  • ::butts in::

    I don't think it's weird at all! 

    Now, I feel weird commenting here a lot with a ticker but I lurk I all the time...

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    I think it's sweet that you're being supportive & keeping tabs on your friends!  (But, then again, I'm not on PgAL :(. )
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  • imageSonadora:

    ::butts in::

    I don't think it's weird at all! 

    Now, I feel weird commenting here a lot with a ticker but I lurk I all the time...

    Unrelated... but I'm really glad everything's ok with Baby Sona :)

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  • Sona, you got a real ticker! I love it!
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  • I check in on PgAL almost every day.  I like to see how our ladies are doing.

    And Sonadora, you can post over here anytime.

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  • jen629jen629 member
    I comment a lot too I feel weird sometimes but I feel very welcomed:)
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    imageSonadora:

    ::butts in::

    I don't think it's weird at all! 

    Now, I feel weird commenting here a lot with a ticker but I lurk I all the time...

    Unrelated... but I'm really glad everything's ok with Baby Sona :)

    Thanks! We had quite the scare there the other day. 

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  • imagetriple_sevens:
    Sona, you got a real ticker! I love it!

    I did :) I finally felt like putting one up. 

    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

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  • imagetoddandjulie:

    And Sonadora, you can post over here anytime.

    :) Thanks....I just don't ever want to make anyone's bad day worse, so I try to be careful about it. 

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    imageSonadora:
    imagetoddandjulie:

    And Sonadora, you can post over here anytime.

    :) Thanks....I just don't ever want to make anyone's bad day worse, so I try to be careful about it. 

    um we miss you truth be told...and I only had like 5 minutes that I could actually be a "regular " over there on PGAL last week... ..so visit more mkay?
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  • I post over there sometimes also. I like to check up and see how everyone is doing.

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  • I lurk there a lot, but only post occasionally because I still do feel a little weird about it.  That being said, I love when they all post over here especially when they are giving us support.
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  • imageSonadora:
    imagetoddandjulie:

    And Sonadora, you can post over here anytime.

    :) Thanks....I just don't ever want to make anyone's bad day worse, so I try to be careful about it. 

    I think, for me, seeing a ticker on someone who has been a supportive part of this board can only make me smile. 

    So glad you're doing well and that the scare was just that.

     

     

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  • I don't think it's weird when you have friends in both places. (as much as I wish we were ALL on pgal)

    I'm on ttcal and this board all the time, I'm totally addicted to you _bitches_ Big Smile

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  • I love that you guys lurk over there and post on stuff.  It really shows everyone how much you care for us.  

    However, I post more over here than over there. 

  • imagemkoelker:

    I love that you guys lurk over there and post on stuff.  It really shows everyone how much you care for us.  

    However, I post more over here than over there. 

    I feel like I should post more over there actually since so many of you have been (and still are) supportive of me.  I don't know why I feel weird - it's sort of like I'll jinx myself by posting there too early.  I know it's stupid, but I feel like I'm sneaking in somewhere I don't belong.

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    imagemkoelker:

    I love that you guys lurk over there and post on stuff.  It really shows everyone how much you care for us.  

    However, I post more over here than over there. 

    I feel like I should post more over there actually since so many of you have been (and still are) supportive of me.  I don't know why I feel weird - it's sort of like I'll jinx myself by posting there too early.  I know it's stupid, but I feel like I'm sneaking in somewhere I don't belong.

    I would love it if you would post over there (if you would feel comfortable that it) We miss and love you guys! 

  • Glad to know you don't all think I'm a freak stalker Yes

    And I think being there, posting here is different than being here, posting there.  I don't know why it's different, it just.... is.  

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  • I'll have to ease into it, but I will try!  Hopefully I'll move over there before all of you guys have your babies. 
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  • imageeminbmore:

    Glad to know you don't all think I'm a freak stalker Yes

    And I think being there, posting here is different than being here, posting there.  I don't know why it's different, it just.... is.  

    It definitely is different - the graduates were members of this board and always will be as far as I'm concerned, but we haven't yet become members of that board.  I know they don't have a problem with us posting and I'm sure many of them would like to see us more too, but hopefully they understand why it might be harder for some of us to post over there all of the time.

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  • I think it's awesome.

    I also think PgALers here are awesome.

    I think it's good to remember your friends. 

  • jen629jen629 member
    imagegrr_aargh:

    I think it's awesome.

    I also think PgALers here are awesome.

    I think it's good to remember your friends. 

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  • I don't think it's weird.  I think your caring and supportive.  I wish I had more courage and gumption to post over there.
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  • no, not weird (says the girl that comments there once in awhile). I want them to comment here, so why wouldn't I comment there?
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  • I comment over there all the time!  They're our friends & I'm sure most don't mind hearing from us.  I only post when girls I know are talking.
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  • imagegrr_aargh:

    I think it's awesome.

    I also think PgALers here are awesome.

    I think it's good to remember your friends. 

    I couldn't agree more with thisSmile

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  • I reply to posts there occasionally, when I actually have input. Which is really not very often. Or if I need to go give someone a hard time (bbhme). You don't escape colinda's snark by hiding over on the side where everyone plays nice :) and sometimes i'll express an opinion on something I feel permitted to as a fellow human being, like name posts. 

    but yeah, I always have doubts. In general posting over there makes me feel like the douchey loser trying to hang out with the cool kids. douche
  • and I dunno why there's an extra douche at the end of my post, but I'm on my phone and cant figure out how to fix it
  • I love it when you guys post over there.  I feel awkward posting over here, so I get that you would feel awkward posting over there.  But please don't stop :)
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  • Well crap I should be posting there more but I feel more comfy over here and could never ever ever ever leave you ladies. You are my sanity!!! I love that the grads lurk here because when I do a lil update for those that know me I can post it here and have those that I loooooves from pgal see it here and then I don't have to post it there!!  We are a special group ....and I don't mean little yellow school bus special!!  :-)

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  • No, it isn't weird. None of us want to feel abandoned either. Post away!
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  • I don't think it's weird, it's nice that you are looking for updates on your friends.  You'll be there soon!
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
  • Absolutely not.  I stalk over here a lot as pp have said but don't post much because of my ticker, but I want to know how my girls are doing.
  • No way Jose!  Please comment! 

    I comment over here ant 6+ a lot too.  I hope that isn't weird!

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  • I like when y'all comment too!

    I used to do it too. I figure I have my own experience and just because I wasn't pregnant at that point, I couldn't NOT comment and offer support.

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  • I love it when y'all post over on PGAL. I lurk here often and am glad to "hear" from you over there!
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