Unless someone was due around my EDD and I see or talk to them, I really don't think about how far along I SHOULD be, or when my Drs appointment should've been or I would have have an x month old by now. I was sad around my EDDs, but I guess my pregnancies never felt that real since I had spotting with each loss, so I kind of stopped thinking about what could of been after it was over. Kind of sad...
Re: Does anyone NOT think about how many months etc?
I'm with you. I have sat down to do the math a few times about where we would be with each loss...but I do have to do the math.
I don't really hold onto dates like that. It would do nothing but cause me more pain.
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
I try not to think about it and honestly I don't know off the top of my head. IMO, "letting go" is part of the healing process, for me at least, and while I will never forget our son, I want to move forward with positivity and not be overwhelmed with the "could have/would have beens".
I am very philisophical about life, and any real event or decision in life can drastically change it's direction. I get very freaked out and upset by thinking about those things so for me it is better not to.
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