Infertility

I HATE....

when people say "Everything Happens for a Reason"
June 2010-Lap
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
PAIF/SAIF Welcome :)

Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
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Re: I HATE....

  • I hate that too. And I hate that I sometimes say it myself. Such a hypocrite, lol.
    DX PCOS w/IR 01/08.
    Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
     
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  • I agree. My new non-favorite - There is a plan.  Really?  If so, I would like to know what it is...

     

    Our Blog - http://thedittemores.blogspot.com/
    Dx PCOS 2003/high fasting insulin/clotting issues DH Dx with low sperm count, motility and morphology. Varicocele repair (11/1/2010)
    2/2011 - Confirmed no improvement - On to Donor Sperm
    4 failed IUIs in 2010
    IUI#5 and 6- with DS, BFN
    Final IUI - Lucky #7! IUI with DS - 20.Jun.2011 - 21.5 mil motile! Not so lucky - BFFN and the end of our IF journey....
    Waiting for our family to be complete through Adoption - May 2012 - Hoping our baby finds us soon!
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  • imageRachael07.07.07:
    I hate that too. And I hate that I sometimes say it myself. Such a hypocrite, lol.

    Exactly!

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  • imagemeg_koole:

    I agree. My new non-favorite - There is a plan.  Really?  If so, I would like to know what it is...

     

    Yes! Sayings like this make me crazy!

    June 2010-Lap
    b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
    b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
    IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
    b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
    PAIF/SAIF Welcome :)

    Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
    Homestudy 7/19/2011
    IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
    We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
    IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frostiesLilypie First Birthday tickers

  • kyna81kyna81 member
    imagemeg_koole:

    I agree. My new non-favorite - There is a plan.  Really?  If so, I would like to know what it is...

     

    I hate this too!  If there is a plan, then my type A personality would really like to be filled in on it!

  • imageRachael07.07.07:
    I hate that too. And I hate that I sometimes say it myself. Such a hypocrite, lol.

    This

    Dx with PCOS and IR June 2009
    After two losses, third time was a charm.
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  • imageRachael07.07.07:
    I hate that too. And I hate that I sometimes say it myself. Such a hypocrite, lol.

    Me too....

  • I know. I also hate "It could be worse." Is that supposed to be comforting?! Cuz it's not.
  • imagek-mart:

    imageRachael07.07.07:
    I hate that too. And I hate that I sometimes say it myself. Such a hypocrite, lol.

    Exactly!

    guilty.

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

  • imagekyna81:
    imagemeg_koole:

    I agree. My new non-favorite - There is a plan.  Really?  If so, I would like to know what it is...

     

    I hate this too!  If there is a plan, then my type A personality would really like to be filled in on it!

    HA HA HA.... EXACTLY!!!!  This was even worse because it came from my friend that had IF and ended up adopting.  Gives me hope that maybe someday all the pain and suffering of IF will be washed away, like amnesia or something.  Is she nuts??????

    Our Blog - http://thedittemores.blogspot.com/
    Dx PCOS 2003/high fasting insulin/clotting issues DH Dx with low sperm count, motility and morphology. Varicocele repair (11/1/2010)
    2/2011 - Confirmed no improvement - On to Donor Sperm
    4 failed IUIs in 2010
    IUI#5 and 6- with DS, BFN
    Final IUI - Lucky #7! IUI with DS - 20.Jun.2011 - 21.5 mil motile! Not so lucky - BFFN and the end of our IF journey....
    Waiting for our family to be complete through Adoption - May 2012 - Hoping our baby finds us soon!
  • Me too.

    And I think that's total BS. Tell me one reason why I am IF and crack whores can pop out kids like it's nothing.

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  • I hate it too.What about rape victims? Starving children in poor countries? Do those things "happen for a reason"??
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  • Everything doesn't happen for a reason, sometimes things happen just because they happen!!!  I think it's worse to hear that than something supportive.
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