Wedding drama update

goodheartedmommy

The dress wasn't as ugly as I thought it was. I hated the color, but it turned out prettier than the other dresses, and there were actually 3 in the dress I wore, and 2 in the other. I must have been on crack or something, I thought there were 6 girls total. Anyway, I looked pretty good (I think so at least).

There were no seats for me and my sister, or our husbands at the head table. We were all in the wedding.

My brother posted a thank you to his bridal party on FB, and left out all 4 of us. Um, you're welcome that we spent almost $2k total on being in your wedding (plus I did a very nice shower for her).

I'm just remembering that they're really young and probably didn't realize they were being hurtful. I'm mainly annoyed (as I said before) that it was obvious they only asked us out of obligation. I would have rather not been invited at all.

Oh, and like SIL took the girls out for a bridal party get together minus me and my sister, my brother took all of the guys to a Tampa Ray's game, minus DH and BIL. 

Anyway, I'm just letting it go. I was a young bride myself, after all, and may have done something that hurt someone without realizing it. 

In good news, there are a ton of picture's from my dad's camera, and there is what appears to be an orb in a picture. SIL's dad died when she was young, and she's told me a lot about how he "shows up" for things and makes his presence known. IDK if it's really an orb or not, but it made her day to see that (I just told her). We'll all believe that's what it is for her sake.

championmama

That's neat about the pic.  Is this wedding the vacation pics you'd been posting on FB? 

goodheartedmommy

Yep. You can see the orb (or whatever it is). It's on the first page, the one with a bunch of people, but me and M are missing from it.

emilykristene2006

I don't know how you are keeping from not commenting on the whole thing!