I don't think his Father's Day could have sucked more.
I didn't have a gift or even a card for him. I'd planned on going Friday to get him a golf bag (didn't really want to go earlier since we don't really have a place to hide something that big), but my grandma came in town and wanted to spend time together (aka, have me drive her around town). Saturday I had a shoot and a baby shower and then when I was going to take the boys to go get the gift, H decided we should go see his dad.
I felt autrocious yesterday. I literally couldn't get off the couch all morning. While I lazed around and slept, he cleaned the house from top to bottom and wrangled the kids.
I finally got up about lunchtime and was going to take the boys to get his gift and give him some peace and quiet for a few hours. I spent 10 minutes with my head in the toilet before I could get in the shower, but finally got out of the house. On my way out, I offered to bring him home lunch.
Tried to find him a card. There were basically none left.
I got him a really nice golf bag and a rain gauge (something he's been wanting. Random.) Law got out of the car and announced that we got him the bag. I handed him the bag with the rain gauge and said, "give this to daddy, too." H said "I sure hope it's lunch! I'm starving!" I'd completely forgotten to get him something to eat. He waited three hours for me to get home with lunch.
I suck. Royally. Luckily, he was a good sport about it, but I'm sure he's disappointed. ![]()
Re: I'm shocked my H doesn't want a divorce.

David "BD" 2/8/07 Spencer 9/12/11