Why would you DD that post? No one was being particularly snarky with you, but giving you honest opinions.
You said that you are a "strong, independent and opinionated" woman. So are the women on these boards. Suck it up next time, even if people don't agree with you.
I don't know exactly what you expected. Your title was "Wives, ugh". We're wives. If you want to trash talk military wives in general, then going to a military wives forum might not be the smartest place to go.