I am heartbroken :(

jkmcnamara

I've posted about my family before. I posted about the lack of support from my mom and the guilt my family gives me for not coming to see them more often. In a nutshell, the pregnant sister posted on my FB about how she heard I wasn't coming in August because of my new job, but that I was going to Canada in September for a friend's baby.

I told her yes, I was going to Canada-which is only a couple hours drive. DH was asked to be the godfather, so we kinda have to go. 

Sister told me that she is glad I have my priorities straight and then it went down from there. She accused my DH of being a fat ass, worthless, unemployed pot head who is too much of a baby to move away from his mommy and daddy. 

What. The. Fvck. I don't know WHERE any of that came from. Um, DH just got state licensing for being a bail bondsman and does work. And a pot head? That's funny....not even sure where THAT came from. 

She crossed a line. And at the end of the message, told me to jump off a bridge and called me a fvcking cvnt. 

 

And she posted all this publicly for people to see. 

theworms

That's classy.

I'm sorry cutie. 

((HUGS))

Yellow_Daisy

Holy crap!  I mean it is bad enough that she said all that to you but to put it out there for all the world to see is classless.  I'm really sorry that she said all that to you.  (((hugs)))

FWIW I don't think I would want to go visit people like that.

yodasmistress

OMFG.  Normally I would say *defriend* but I suppose this is a bit more complicated that that!  

thebeadinglady

I am so sorry she said those things hun. I know much more stuff like that can hurt when it comes from family. (((hugs)))

mrscoley

Wow. I am soo sorry that your sister had to be so immature. Thankfully you'll have more than enough support here.

mrshoppy_1231

And she wonders why you don't visit?? She sounds like a real classy lady. I'm sorry sweetie.

cookie_queen

Holy geez! She sounds like a peach. She deserves a throatpunch or a swift kick in the ass.

I'm so sorry you had to hear/read that.  ((hugs))

With a choice between her and Canada I'd be in Canada too! 

newsbaby

Wow. She actually wonders why you would not want to visit someone like that? I am so sorry.

jkmcnamara

Thanks, ladies. I'm really upset, because it's bad enough to make things up, but then to post it publicly is really messed up. I'm really upset about the pot head thing. I am so sensitive to the drugs thing because I am so anti-drug. I never did them and would not. DH and I plan to adopt, so our records are incredibly clean. Why would we risk the future just to get high?

I told my mom that I'm done with my whole family and defriended my sister. What was said from her was actually much uglier than that even

scatterbrainliz

Wow!  I'm so sorry you have to deal with family members who are aholes!  I can't believe she wrote that publicly on your wall.  I can't believe she called you that terrible name and how insensitive she is of your situation.  Just want to offer you some (((((hugs))))))

nina&matt

I can't believe she said that to you, let alone post it for all to see. Im so sorry sweetie.

Edwina.McDunnough

I am sorry. I'm so so sorry.

It sounds like she's trying to publicly "out" you for being a bad sister, but she's really just burying herself, and, to be honest, I hope it backfires on her. It's low to try and manipulate friends and family to take sides in a personal disagreement. And kind of twisted when it's made-up BS.

whispergrrl

Wow. I'm speechless. 

I think after something like that, maybe it's a good thing you don't live close to her, eh? I'm sorry you have to deal with crap like this, hon.... 

Rachael07.07.07

Holy sh!t. Klassy. That's terrible. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I have a similar situation currently with my stepsisters (if you remember, one is the bankrupt pg). I learned that since cutting them out and not focusing on what my relationship with them is, I'm so much more happy. (((hugs)))

Echloe

Wow.  Your sister needs to step back and realize that the world doesn't revolve around her.  I'm so sorry sweetie.  

cbeney

Im so sorry, like IF isnt stressful enough, you have to deal with a$$holes like this!! *hugs*

Sunflower730

Oh I'm sorry hunny.

Dragonfly1226

Oh hon - I am so, so sorry. I can't believe she would be so terrible to you in suck a public way.

(On a practical side - is there any wa you could report her to FB and have the post taken down?)

I am sending you tons of (((((hugs))))) 

jkmcnamara

Dragonfly1226:

Oh hon - I am so, so sorry. I can't believe she would be so terrible to you in suck a public way.

(On a practical side - is there any wa you could report her to FB and have the post taken down?)

I am sending you tons of (((((hugs))))) 

I deleted it all, after printing it off, and emailing it to myself. 

Missy0708

WTF?! 

I'm sorry your sister said such horrible, untrue things to you!

sheila1108

I am so sorry. I wouldnt want to go visit someone who talked to me like that

SweetDahlia

I'm sorry honey. She sucks. I would move on and just ignore her antics. I hate FB for this reason. People shoudln't use it to air dirty laundry and to be mean.

carlatron

What the bloody F...

 

Don't feed into it. She is going to look like a psychopath, flying off the handle like that.

 

I am so sorry you have to deal with this.

CarrieLiz

Totally uncalled for.  I'm sorry

2006july15bride

How awful.  My brother did something similar to me in a public place.  I know exactly how you feel and if you want to cut her off then do so.  I haven't spoken to my brother in 6 months.  We go to the same gym and walk right by eachother.  ((HUGS))

Medtwin

Sorry.. she sounds like all of those things she called you.. & to do it on FB.. what a loser!! NO offense! Just try to stay clear from family..sometimes  you have to do that.. sorry!!

mapst77

That sucks that you not only have to deal with IF but also all the family drama! :-/  Sorry things aren't going well right now... hope it gets better for ya

psychmusetls

  i don't even know what to say to that!  omg so sorry  :::hugs:::

erinandbrockv

Wow. I don't even know what to say. Im so sorry.