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My transfer did not happen

long story short, 2 different Drs tried for over 3 hours. they couldn't get the catheter into my uterus. my ute is at a 90 degree angle and they tried every catheter known to man, it was a no go.

the plan is as follows, if our little embie makes it to blast on Saturday and freeze, we will try a FET next month. 

the Drs seems to think that I am still inflamed from the ER and all the hormones and believe they have a better shot on an un-medicated natural cycle. 

At this point I would love to say that I am thinking positive, but I have encountered so many hurdles this cycle while trying to stay positive, and I just keep getting knocked down. 

if this doesn't happen for us, I will not go through another IVF cycle. One thing you never want to hear from a Dr is "we've never not been able to get in before".  To get this far and not be able to have the ET is just a cruel joke.

Anyway, I wanted to thank you ladies for you support and kind words. 

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  • Oh Dina, I am so sorry. Lots of ((hugs)).  I have been reading lately that there are some REs who think that a FET is always better, because our utes are so out of whack after all the drugs and the ER. I hope your little embryo makes it to blast and you have a successful FET next month. 
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  • I am so sorry.  Hopefully next month's FET will be your BFP.  (((hugs)))
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  • imagehollymichael:
    Oh Dina, I am so sorry. Lots of ((hugs)).  I have been reading lately that there are some REs who think that a FET is always better, because our utes are so out of whack after all the drugs and the ER. I hope your little embryo makes it to blast and you have a successful FET next month. 
    Holly thank you - and that is interesting information. I would like to read more about it. if you can find the items you were reading can you please PM the links to me?

    and btw - congrats on 7 eggs! that is wonderful news 

  • Oh Dina, I am so sorry, what a rough day!
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  • Oh No sweetie!! Im so sorry. ((hugs)) I will be praying your little embie makes it to blast and you can do an FET next month.
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  • I am so sorry this has been so hard for you & DH. I so hope that the FET is your BFP, & I wish you all the PPV to get through this. ((HUGS))
  • Dina that is such a slap in the face. I'm so sorry. You shouldn't have to keep dealing with crap like this.
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  • Oh no.  I am so sorry.   Today must have been a really rough day for you.  I hope that the embie makes it to blast and that you have a successful FET next month.

    ((Hugs))

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  • Oh, Dina... I'm so sorry.  {{Gigantic Hugs}}
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  • That just seems soo wrong ... best of luck and many hugs!!
  • I am keeping my fingers crossed for your embies. Just a thought-could they sedate you for the transfer?
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    Oh, no, that is so crappy. I am so sorry. Ugh. I am sending you lots of T&Ps for that embie to become a superrockstar! Hey, we will be doing our FETs around the same time. Try as hard as you can to stay positive, although I know it must be hard.?
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  • I'm so sorry!  I really hope next months FET works for you!
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  • I'm sorry for your troubles Dina. Ill be thinking of you.
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  • I can't imagine what a tough day it has been for you!  I understand you having a hard time keeping positive.  You can just let us do that for you if you need.  I will be thinking about your little rockstars and I hope a FET is exactly what you need to get your bfp.
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  • Oh, I'm so sorry.  You must be crushed :(
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    imagehollymichael:
    Oh Dina, I am so sorry. Lots of ((hugs)).  I have been reading lately that there are some REs who think that a FET is always better, because our utes are so out of whack after all the drugs and the ER. I hope your little embryo makes it to blast and you have a successful FET next month. 
    Holly thank you - and that is interesting information. I would like to read more about it. if you can find the items you were reading can you please PM the links to me?

    and btw - congrats on 7 eggs! that is wonderful news 

    I heard about the theory Holly mentioned.  I think a newbie asked about it once on here - her clinic does this - freezes the embies, waits until a natural cycle, and then transfers the embies.  I have even thought about mentioning it to my RE, but we aren't brave enough to push beyond a 3dt.

    I am so sorry this cycle has been so tough. 

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  • I'm so sorry. That must have been so difficult to go through. I wish you best of luck on the FET next month.
  • I'm so sorry. 
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  • Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. I am hoping and praying that you are able to complete a successful FET next month. BIG (((HUGS)))
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  • Oh no! I am so sorry! My prayers are with you! I hope they can do the FET!!!
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  • Oh Dina, I am so sorry. Big (((HUGS))) and tons of positive thoughts and prayers to you. xoxoxo
  • I'm so sorry. What a tough thing.
  • Indifferent  Holy crap!  I'm so sorry!
     
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    I'm so sorry, hon.  I can imagine how frustrated and disappointed you are.  I hope an unmedicated FET is the answer for you.  ((hugs))

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  • I know we just talked on the phone for an hour, but I wanted to publicly say how sorry I am for you. I am also so angry for you. There has got to be a way that this will work for you. I am so sorry you are going through so much crap. There is going to be light at the end of the tunnel, I promise.
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    imageDinaLINY:

    imagehollymichael:
    Oh Dina, I am so sorry. Lots of ((hugs)).  I have been reading lately that there are some REs who think that a FET is always better, because our utes are so out of whack after all the drugs and the ER. I hope your little embryo makes it to blast and you have a successful FET next month. 
    Holly thank you - and that is interesting information. I would like to read more about it. if you can find the items you were reading can you please PM the links to me?

    and btw - congrats on 7 eggs! that is wonderful news 

    I heard about the theory Holly mentioned.  I think a newbie asked about it once on here - her clinic does this - freezes the embies, waits until a natural cycle, and then transfers the embies.  I have even thought about mentioning it to my RE, but we aren't brave enough to push beyond a 3dt.

    I am so sorry this cycle has been so tough. 

    I remember this too. 

    Dina, I am so sorry!  I really hope that your FET next month is your BFP!!

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  • So my RE told me that the "freeze-all" method is 20%-30% more successful than a 3d or 5d transfer!  He recently started doing this with all his patients because of all the meds can make the endometrium an "unaccepting" enviornment!  Good luck next month... it may be just what you need even though it is SoOOO hard to get your hopes up... just keep your eye on the prize! :)

  • Sorry Dina.. sounds like a shitty day! :(  keep your chin up.. gl with freeze embies..
    IVF - 9/09 - BFN! :( IVF #2 - ER 3/16; ET 3/18 with one embryo Beta 3/30 -- BFN! :( IVF #3 - 5/10 - BFN! IVF #4 - 11/10 - BFP. m/c at 6weeks :( FET #1 - 2/11 - BFP. beta on 2/21 :) Thank you God! :) u/s on 3/7 showed TWINS! u/s on 3/11 TWO heartbeats! Couldn't be happier :)
  • I'm sorry Dina! I know your FET will bring you that BFP!

    Big hugs!!!

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  • I'm really sorry that your ET didn't happen.  I sort of know how you feel.  I didn't have any eggs fertilize, and I got the "This has never happened since I've been here." comment from my IVF nurse coordinator.  I wish you luck with your next steps. 
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  • Im so sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad your embie is still going and the whole FET idea dosent sound like such a bad idea.
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  • Oh sweetie I am so sorry. Lots of PPV your way!
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  • I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that today. I'm sending good thoughts that your embie makes it to blast. 
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  • Oh sweetie, I'm so very sorry. I am sending lots of T&P your way.
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  • I'm sorry that happened...but I am going to keep my fingers crossed for your FET!
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  • how frustrating. so very sorry !  ((HUGS)).  i hope the FET is it for you!...
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  • imagehollymichael:
    Oh Dina, I am so sorry. Lots of ((hugs)).  I have been reading lately that there are some REs who think that a FET is always better, because our utes are so out of whack after all the drugs and the ER. I hope your little embryo makes it to blast and you have a successful FET next month. 

    This!  Lots of hugs and I'm one of the believers of this.  I just did my ivf where we purposely waited a month for the FET.

    Good luck!

  • I'm so sorry.  That has to be so frustrating.  I wish you all the luck in the world in having your embryo make it to freeze and in a successful ET next month.
  • That sucks so bad cutie :(

    I'm sorry and your vaj must not be happy.

    Praying your little rockstar grows and you can do FET. 

    ((HUGS))

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