Now while I agree Female Bodybuilding can be a bit over the top I still think muscularity on a woman is nice looking.
Not super veiny but muscular and defined, toned etc.
I did a figure competition a few years ago (which is not as muscular as bodybuilding) and I don't think I looked manly.
Now you will have to excuse the stage makeup and fake tanner
ETA: this is NOT supposed to be a WOW you look good/bad post. Just saying that you don't have to be huge and veiny and this was my experience