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Third tri scares me...

andrea zandrea z
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All that talk about contractions, mucous plugs, inductions....

Yikes... I really like pretending like that stuff isn't going to happen.  The thought of that happening in 10ish weeks is freaking me out.  We really need to think of a pain free way of getting these babies out of us. 

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Re: Third tri scares me...

  • SonadoraSonadora member
    Teleporters.
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  • ShellShockedMamaShellShockedMama member

     don't forget about episiotomies 

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  • andrea zandrea z
    imageShellShockedMama:

     don't forget about episiotomies 

    Big Smile 

    Indifferent I forgot all about that little procedure.  Oh man...

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    Ethan and Jacob-our beautiful angel babies lived for 11 minutes and 23 hours.
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  • MaryEllenMaryEllen member
    Ha I know!! The first time I went to that board I was terrified and felt like I didn't belong. I'm slowly accepting the fact that I need to get her out of me somehow, and soon.
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  • CoastieWife08CoastieWife08

    And Depends.

    Apparently, the trend now is to wear Depends post-partum instead of using pads.  I doez not getz it.

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  • ezbakejessezbakejess

    Then when you get to 3rd tri you start looking ahead at 0-3 - then you get to hear about colic and engorgement and PPD.... it never stops being scary.

    But at least then you have a baby Smile 

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  • StaribethStaribeth
    I am going to really enjoy my last two weeks in 2nd tri!
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  • girlintheworldgirlintheworld member
    Tell me about it. I'm scared sh!tless.
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  • andrea zandrea z

    imageStaribeth:
    I am going to really enjoy my last two weeks in 2nd tri!

    Really do.  2nd tri is all about the fun stuff... showers, nurseries, first kicks, and big u/s's.... then 3rd tri slaps you with placentas, contractions, cervix issues... and so much more.  It's scary... Indifferent

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    9/13/09-Twin boys born at 23 weeks due to Pprom.
    Ethan and Jacob-our beautiful angel babies lived for 11 minutes and 23 hours.
    Single embryo FET 12/2009-BFP! Blake born 8/2010 at 39 weeks after 36 hours of labor and an emergency c section < IVF 2- BPF! Due April 27th Our Story
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  • IrishsapphireIrishsapphire member

    Just keep in mind that your child may be the one calling the shots on what kind of birth.  I had natural childbirth, not by choice.  But it is so worth it.  And I kept in mind that after 28 weeks, there was a higher chance of survival for the baby.  Even though it was scary to have my baby at 31 weeks, I had more confidence knowing that the NICU at my hospital would be able to take good care of my baby.  And they have.  He is doing really good at this point.  For me, 3rd tri was an accomplishment, and the finale was finally getting to hold my beautiful baby. 

    I really like being a mom--changing diapers, pumping breastmilk--it is so natural--it brings out a softer more beautiful side of you if let it. 

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