Just saw your post about looking for a place to have DD's party. Have you looked at Mendon Ponds Park? https://www.monroecounty.gov/parks-mendonponds.php
This is where we were going to have Evan's #1 (but we had to cancel due half our family having swine flu) and where we will have their joint party this year. We rent the cobblestone house (SIL has parties there sometimes) and it is has a full kitchen and tables/chairs. It also has a playroom and a bathroom. But there are lots of lodges and shelters there. It's a gorgeous park, if you haven't been before. If you click on the online application and go to the date(s) you are looking for - it will show you what is available.