But at least I said my piece. My mother, which I knew she would, said "we were only joking around..." to which I replied that when he started crying, it was no longer funny. I laid out the whole trust issue, and also pointed out the fact that he has boundary issues when playing with others, and if we don't model that for him, how can we expect him to do it himself? She rolled her eyes and said I was, as usual, overreacting. I told her that she's the adult, and he's only a child, and she needs to rethink how she treats him. I don't care if she does think I'm being unreasonable- if it means she's on pins and needles with how she treats my kids and she takes a moment to think twice about what she says and does to them, I can handle my biotch status.