Breastfeeding

so annoyed & dont know what to do

so i just moved in with my grandmother because my husband will be leaving soon for the army... well everything was fine till my aunt decided to come up and stay with all of us too.. well i asked her if she'd get affended if i just wipped my boob out to feed my DD and she said no.. well today all she's been talking about is how she thinks its disgusting when she goes any where (store, park, beach..etc) and a woman is breast feeding .. even if they cover up she thinks its gross because she still knows what she's doing under the blanket!! Now i feel totally weird and dont know if i should go into a different room to feed my DD or say "F" it and continue to feed my baby where i feel.. then she said.. oh when she's 6 weeks and you can go places with her.. you ARE going to pump first right so you dont have to BF in public...um idk.. i didnt plan on it.. idk.. im pissed.. annoyed.. confused..etc.. how should i deal with this.. plus i kinda think my grandma feels the same way but wont say... aaaaahhhh.. help please!!! TIA

Re: so annoyed & dont know what to do

  • well i decided to BF in the same room.. if she dont like it... she can leave the room!!
  • go for it.  f her!
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  • imagebaldwinsbride:
    well i decided to BF in the same room.. if she dont like it... she can leave the room!!

    good for you!  This is your home for now, you should be able to feed your LO where ever you please. 

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  • Wow, that is so ignorant and awful for her to say those things.  How unsupportive!  What if you just had a frank discussion with her and asked her what is so "gross" about it?  I mean really?  How TOTALLY immature.  Keep doing what you're doing and don't let either of them make you feel bad or ashamed.
  • imagebaldwinsbride:
    well i decided to BF in the same room.. if she dont like it... she can leave the room!!

    Good for you! Eff her. I don't understand how people can be so ignorant about it - you're feeding a child. Good grief. 

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