I'm happy for them because I know they struggled a lot. But, I still think, boy that sucks for me.
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I actually really like her so it didn't bother me. I love that she is so open about her IF and IVF too. She is far from a FH so the announcement is much easier to take. If she can do it at 42, then I can do it 39.
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I was happy for her. She's been so honest about her struggles--and have you read some of the things people write about her in response? That she should give up, she and her husband aren't meant to have any more kids, that they should trust in "God's time," that they're selfish for not adopting.
I'm glad to see her prevail over all that nonsense. And I figure if it can happen for her it can happen for me.
BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11
I thought the same thing once I heard she was having twins. Part of it's due to being completely bitter right now because it seems like everyone is having twins.
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3 IUI's all BFN
IVF#1 BFN
IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks
FET#1 BFN
IVF#3 BFP, m/c
FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
Re: Am I really the ONLY one who thought "Fvck you"
You make excellent points.
I am still a bitter betty about the whole thing.
I don't blame you at all. Hearing announcements is never fun, but we are going to making those announcements for ourselves soon enough.
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
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This.
I don't like her music, I think her husband is creeeepy, and her personality annoys the_shit out of me.
HOWEVER, because she was so open about her IVF and the heartbreak of IF, it makes me happy for her.
You're not the only bitter betty. I am too.
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I think I'm genuinly happy for her, but it has a lot to do with her being so open about IF.
Better her than an Olsen twin or something, right?
I thought the Exact. Same. Thing.
I don't know why exactly. Guess I'm just a B.
I was happy for her. She's been so honest about her struggles--and have you read some of the things people write about her in response? That she should give up, she and her husband aren't meant to have any more kids, that they should trust in "God's time," that they're selfish for not adopting.
I'm glad to see her prevail over all that nonsense. And I figure if it can happen for her it can happen for me.
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Jenn
3 IUI's all BFN
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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