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guess what I just found out (PG cousin mentioned)

I was at my IL for dinner tonight and my DH cousin is due in October and I was Very bitter when she got PG but I have gotten over it (they have a very weird "we are better then thou" attitude about stuff and feel like they know everything so I have been avoiding them).

Anyways.  My MIL just told me that DH aunt told her that she wanted to get PG right away and after 3 months went to the Dr. and told her she wanted to get on fertility meds.. he told her that she had to try for a year before they do that (She is only 28-29) so she LIED to the Dr. and told her it has been 11 months.  Long story short.. she got KU first time with them and now says she want 4 kids right away.  I am sorry but what an ASS!  To make it worse she did this right after she found out i had my M/C (MIL told me she told them about it and a month later she was KU)... MIL thinks she ran and did that so that she would get PG before me.  I can't believe someone would be so impatient.  I guess some people just get what they want when they want it. 

Rant over.. sorry just had to vent.  but now i don't know if I can look at her with out being pissed. 

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Re: guess what I just found out (PG cousin mentioned)

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    I'm sorry (((hugs)))
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    UHG!  I would be ticked, too.  That is just ridiculous.  Why would you want to do fertility meds if you didn't need them?
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    Right aren't fertility meds kinda harsh?!?! We haven't hit that part of the journey yet but I thought that they kinda mess you up hormonally. 
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    Jeez, that's crappy. I'm sorry.
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    yeah she certainly shouldn't be lying about that.  Her doc maybe should have questioned it a bit more.
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    That's terrible, I'm sorry. I can't believe she lied to the doctor. Don't they check into medical history or anything before they go handing out meds? 
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    Wow.  That's just crazy.  I'm sorry.
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    THanks girls... i thought I was being super sensitive about it (which I am trying to be better about) so thanks for justifying my feelings.  Im gonna go eat icecream to make me feel better.
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    she sounds like a real douchnozzle.  ((hugs))
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    THanks girls... i thought I was being super sensitive about it (which I am trying to be better about) so thanks for justifying my feelings.  Im gonna go eat icecream to make me feel better.

     

    Do this for sure!! That broad is nuts.  I agree w/your MIL, why else would she rush into Fertility meds if she wasn't tryin to get KU before you?  Psycho

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    imagefrogyie:
    THanks girls... i thought I was being super sensitive about it (which I am trying to be better about) so thanks for justifying my feelings.  Im gonna go eat icecream to make me feel better.

     Your feelings are completely justified.  I am sorry that you have to deal with someone like her.

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