I was at my IL for dinner tonight and my DH cousin is due in October and I was Very bitter when she got PG but I have gotten over it (they have a very weird "we are better then thou" attitude about stuff and feel like they know everything so I have been avoiding them).
Anyways. My MIL just told me that DH aunt told her that she wanted to get PG right away and after 3 months went to the Dr. and told her she wanted to get on fertility meds.. he told her that she had to try for a year before they do that (She is only 28-29) so she LIED to the Dr. and told her it has been 11 months. Long story short.. she got KU first time with them and now says she want 4 kids right away. I am sorry but what an ASS! To make it worse she did this right after she found out i had my M/C (MIL told me she told them about it and a month later she was KU)... MIL thinks she ran and did that so that she would get PG before me. I can't believe someone would be so impatient. I guess some people just get what they want when they want it.
Rant over.. sorry just had to vent. but now i don't know if I can look at her with out being pissed.
Re: guess what I just found out (PG cousin mentioned)
BFP-2/4/10 EDD-9/27/10 M/C-2/11/10 7w3d D&C and Methotrexate-2/19/10
BFP-11/21/10 M/C-11/25/10
Clomid Cycle #1-BFN
Clomid Cycle #2-BFP-1/18/2011 M/C-1/26/2011
BFP-5/18/11 Riley arrived 2/3/12 8lbs6oz 21.5in
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
Do this for sure!! That broad is nuts. I agree w/your MIL, why else would she rush into Fertility meds if she wasn't tryin to get KU before you? Psycho
Your feelings are completely justified. I am sorry that you have to deal with someone like her.