Ok, so I'm laid off work for the summer, and I'm really enjoying getting to spend time with the kids, but I'm going crazy! I need to find some thngs to do outside to keep me busy. I've always loved going walking with the dog. And my youngest is the easy one to deal with. Just put him in the stroller and go.
It's my four year old step-daughter that I don't know how to get out with. I want her to get outside and enjoy nature like her father and I do. She loves being outside all the time, but most of the time it just consists of playing on the swingset we have in the backyard. Our street is rather busy and doesn't have any sidewalks. So if I want to walk somewhere safe, we have to drive, and it's an ordeal getting both kids and the dog loaded up into the car.
They just opened up a beautiful trail that follows a greenbelt. I know she would enjoy it. But I just don't know how far she would want to go. We only have a one-seat stroller. And she doesn't have a bike here. I just don't want to load everyone up and get all the way over there just to walk for five minutesd and have to turn around and come home because she won't go any farther.
Any tips on how I can make it fun and interesting for her? Anything I can do to redirect her attention if she starts to get bored? How far should I expect her to be able to go anyway? I definitely don't want to push her too far. I mean, if worse comes to worse, I could carry the baby's pack, and when she gets tired of walking, I'll put baby in the pack on me and put my stepdaughter in the stroller. But I would really REALLY hate to have to do that.
Re: Outdoors with 4 y/o?
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