Last night DH was telling me that I'm his favorite wife (he was previously married.) Mid-conversation, we got a phone call from someone at our church, who needed information from me. He said, "Hang on, let me give the phone to Julia."
I'm not Julia. Ex-wife is Julia.
He's NEVER done that before, and it really didn't upset me - it was obviously because we were talking about his previous marriage when the phone rang. But he feels TERRIBLE. I keep telling him that I'm not upset, but he just feels awful. The plus side, he's being super-husband because of the guilt - I woke up to clean dishes and a clean kitchen this morning.
The extra-funny part? The call was about the flowers we donated to the church in honor of our first wedding anniversary.
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Oh no!! Nice of him to be super-husband though to make it up to you...
Maybe he should slip-up more often?
Oh no he di'ent!!!! :::snaps fingers in a z formation across face:::
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My DH is also divorced and he did this to me once when we were first dating. Let's just say he learned his lesson.
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I would have been VERY annoyed...but accidents happen! I know things come out of my mouth without thinking all the time, but YAY for a clean kitchen!
You are a great wife for being so understanding of the situation and not holding it against him. It sounds like it was simply due to the discussion you were having, but that would still have to sting.
Yay for guilt cleaning, though!
HAHAHAHA, oh my gosh.
I have to agree with you, my DH has been married before but things like that don't really bother me. (He got our birthdays confused once..)