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Told MIL eventhing (sad)

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This weekend, on CD 86 I tested (BFN) and broken down.  I really hoped just maybe, ya know.  MIL came over and I told her everything, she was so great.  I was deeply saddened to learn she had a stillbirth and 3 m/c, she was so understanding and I'm so thankful to have someone to finally talk to about all this but I'm so sad she had to go through all that. Now I have to call the dr and make an appt to see what to do (hopefully meds to bring on my period, bloodwork maybe), MIL is going to go with me.

 

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  • lostkendralostkendra
    I'm glad your MIL is there for you. T & P 
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  • colflowerM824colflowerM824

    I'm so sorry... that's a very sad story.  At least you can be thankful to have someone who can empathize with you now.  What a great MIL.

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  • ishka338ishka338
    I'm sorry you are going through this, but it's great to have someone who you can go to and who cares about you so much.  Good luck with your visit to the doctor.
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  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
    I am glad she was understanding.  My MIL told me to "just relax" when I told her we were having trouble.


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  • Lily82Lily82
    What a great MIL. I hope that you get some answers soon. 
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  • TayVATayVA
    That is very sad! It's hard to hear stories like that. I'm glad you are able to share your experience with your MIL. It sounds like she will be part of a great support system for you. Good luck at the dr. appt!
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  • MuseumMavenMuseumMaven member
    I'm so sorry for your BFN.  But what a great MIL - I'm glad that you have her for support.
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  • maybebridemaybebride member

    So sorry for what you're going through, but I'm so glad you found someone to talk to. How great that she shared her story with you. And what awesome support beyond that by going to the doctor with you.

    Good luck!

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  • ermadermaermaderma

    I'm sorry :(

    But, yay! for an awesome MIL.

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  • O2BaMomO2BaMom

    imageL&R70707:
    I am glad she was understanding.  My MIL told me to "just relax" when I told her we were having trouble.

    I am so sorry, I'm totally willing to share my MIL with you! 

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  • O2BaMomO2BaMom
    Thanks ladies, as always your kind words and support mean a lot to me. <3
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  • Lkat17Lkat17 member
    I'm sorry about what you're going through, but I'm glad you've found a great support system in your MIL!

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  • csiavellocsiavello

    I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. My MIL is just as great and its nice to have such support. Hang in threre!

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  • PDXGal7868PDXGal7868
    I'm so sorry, that has to be so hard. I'm glad you have such a great MIL. I hoep you get some helpful info from your doc. Keep your chin up.
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  • brandywine2010brandywine2010 member
    Wow! I know you are so thankful to have such an understanding MIL. Good  luck with your appointment.
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