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I had emergency surgery today - lost my fallopian tube

So, as if it isnt bad enough that I had a miscarriage, it turned out to be ectopic. I woke up at 3am with terrible pelvic pain. Went to the ER and was admitted for emergency surgery and they couldn't save the tube. Also, they woke me up too soon - as they were taking out the intubation tube I was choking like crazy.

I can't stop crying - I am so sad. Today was a horrible day. 

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  • Oh no!  Nikki, I am so sorry to hear about what happened to you today! :(
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  • Sorry to hear about your miscarriage and surgery. :-(
  • StephKStephK member
    Oh no, I am so so sorry for everything you're going through. SadRight Hug  Please take care of yourself.  You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • Oh hon I am so sorry!! Life's a total biitch! (((huge hugs)))
  • TaceyKTaceyK member

    I am so sorry, I have never talked to you before, I am new here....but that is awful. My T&P go out to you, seriously. Are you feeling ok physically now? I am so sorry you have to deal with this.

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  • Take care of yourself!  T&P are with you and yours.
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  • Mags04Mags04 member
    You are in my thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery.  I am so sorry to hear about your emergency surgery and loss.

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  • Oh wow.. I'm pretty new here too, but sending T & P your way.  I'm so sorry you had to go through all of this.  I hope you feel better soon.. take care of yourself!
  • imageTaceyK:

    I am so sorry, I have never talked to you before, I am new here....but that is awful. My T&P go out to you, seriously. Are you feeling ok physically now? I am so sorry you have to deal with this.

    I am still in a lot of pain - sore pelvic area and abdomen - and pretty emotional because pregnancy hormones still in my system.

    Thank you for your T&P's.  

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  • I am so sorry. Lot's of T&P. Sad
  • Oh, that's terrible.  I'm so so sorry to hear about all of this.  
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  • lcs851lcs851 member
    i have been through this and i just want to say it takes time to heal and allow yourself to do that. no one will ever know how u feel but you but you had a loss and it is excepted to feel sad and hurt, it will be ok and i am here if you need me, i am so sorry for your loss and the sudden changes you had to go through it will  get better - stay strong!
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  • Good grief! I am so sorry honey! ((hugs))

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  • Holy cow! I am so sorry. :(  

     Take some R&R chica, and T&P with you!! 

  • I'm sorry for what you are going through.
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  • TaceyKTaceyK member
    imageNikkiBenzo:
    imageTaceyK:

    I am so sorry, I have never talked to you before, I am new here....but that is awful. My T&P go out to you, seriously. Are you feeling ok physically now? I am so sorry you have to deal with this.

    I am still in a lot of pain - sore pelvic area and abdomen - and pretty emotional because pregnancy hormones still in my system.

    Thank you for your T&P's.  

    Well, you are busy with a 2 1/2 year old. Promise me you will take time out for yourself to rest...you need to

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  • I am so sorry to hear this, T&P are with you and your family!

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  • I am so sorry - what an awful day hon.  I hope it starts to get better soon!
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  • Oh, I'm so sorry Nikki. :(
  • Aww Nikki, I'm so sorry. I'm sending you thoughts and prayers. Right Hug
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  • How awful.  I'm so sorry Nikki. T&P

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  • ooo my gosh that's horrible.. I'm so sorry, and hope you recover quickly!
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  • O wow, that is crazy.I am sorry you are going through this. I hope you have a swift recovery. You are in my thoughts.
  • I am so sorry! Thinking of you and wishing you much strength, courage and love.
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  • red1976red1976 member
    I am so sorry you had to go through all of this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I hope you recover quickly.
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  • Oh how awful. I am so sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are feeling better today.
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  • Oh my god I am so sorry. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • DCriderDCrider member
    Lot's of T & P's for you! So sorry :( 
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  • I'm so very sorry.
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  • ReeseMReeseM member
    Oh my god! That is terrible!! I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say :(
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  • I am so sorry! Hang in there.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this :(

    You might try to PM KMLP if you need some support, she just went through this recently as well.

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  • I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you feel better.
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  • Oh wow, hon! I am so very sorry.  I hope you get well soon.
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  • I'm so very sorry to hear this. T&P go out to you. Right Hug Take care of yourself, and if that includes ice cream, then so be it!
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  • atlbatlb member
    So sorry to hear this, Nikki. T&Ps are with you!
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    I am so very very sorry. ::hugs::
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  • I am so sorry to hear! Hope things start looking up soon Sad
  • I'm so sorry that you have had to endure all of this, I can't imagine what you must be feeling right now, but we are all here for you. ((hugs))
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