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Need prayers and well wishes for tomorrow, please

Most of you know that DH and I have had trouble TTC #2. We are in the beginning of cycle #15....sigh. We have had all the necessary testing come back normal, even tried Clomid, one IUI and nothing. (see siggy)

Two weeks ago I went in for severe pain during ovulation and had a pretty large cyst. I have a history of cysts. My doctor suggested we do diagnostic laproscopy to check things out. He said I have many signs that point to endometriosis.

Tomorrow is the day. I am scheduled for surgery at 12pm. In a twisted way, I want him to find something in there that he can fix. I need a diagnosis at this point. He said I am borderline "unexplained infertility" GULP! That was the first mention at the IF word.

Please send up a prayer for me tomorrow.

DD born 8/24/07
TTC #2 since 4/09
Unexplained Secondary IF
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4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
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Re: Need prayers and well wishes for tomorrow, please

  • Girl, I will be thinking of you!  If you need anything you can call me!

    yes, let's get you all "fixed" and then get you knocked up :) 

     

    love ya girl!

  • kc0721kc0721 member
    I'll be praying for you to find some answers and hopefully get fixed up.  Please keep us updated. 
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  • Prayers coming your way!  Hopefully he will find something that can be explained...and then fixed.  Good luck, and keep us updated. :)
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  • Will be praying for you and I send you best wishes.

    Siggy coming soon....
  • We'll be thinking of you!  I can see why you would want something to be found so it can be fixed-I  hope it'll all work out so you can get pregnant soon!
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  • MissLMSMissLMS member
    Sending up a prayer!

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  • Will definitely be praying for you! I hope all goes well and you will be pregnant soon :)
  • Lots of thoughts and prayers and well wishes for you tomorrow!!  Please keep us posted = )
  • Prayer already said! Keep us posted.
  • Thanks ladies. I will try to update Wednesday but most likely Thursday.
    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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  • I will be praying for you & hope you get some answers.
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  • amy0887amy0887 member
    Prayers said. 
  • sending you lots of positive vibes...

    hope you get the answers you are looking for...

  • Prayers said!  Good luck tomorrow :)
  • Hugs and prayers for you!!!
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  • Thoughts and prayers coming your way.  I hope everything goes well.
  • I will be thinking of you tomorrow! I will be praying that you find some answers and you can get pregnant soon!
  • uagirluagirl member
    T&P for tomorrow!  I hope your surgery goes well and they are able to give you some answers!
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  • Oh my goodness Lindsey!  I had no idea you were having surgery tomorrow!  I will definitely pray for you. I too hope that they find something minor and "fixable" so that you can have some aswers and continue on with TTC with a great outcome.  Let me know if you need anything...help with the girls...whatever.  Good luck!
  • Thanks again everyone!! So glad to have such a wonderful support!!
    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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  • Many many prayers said sweetie!  I hope that if they do find something, that it's easily fixable.  [[[HUGS]]] 

    I know how scary this is.  I had to have a lap as well and have a family history of endo (mom had stage 4).  They didn't find anything and I was really frustrated, but relieved at the same time.  I'll be thinking of you tomorrow!

  • Prayers said! I hope it goes well!!
  • I have endometriosis and had to have a lap a couple years ago... I already can feel it growing back, so I'm sure I'll have to have another in the next year or so.  If you have any questions/concerns about the procedure, feel free to PM me or page me on here or the IF board.  We have been TTC #1 for 5 years now.  I have endo, thyroid issues, and PCOS.  I know IF is a hard pill to swallow, but I figure that at least if you can put a name on it you can go from there.  Good luck tomorrow, hope everything goes smoothly! 

    Here are my unsolicited tips... Stick out tongue  Wear loose fitting clothes (yoga-like pants) tomorrow!!!  You don't want anything tight on the incisions and you'll likely be bloated.  If they use gas to inflate your abdomen (my RE didn't), I've heard it's useful to have heating pads to put on your shoulders since the gas will rise upward into your shoulders once you sit/stand... in this case, it's also best to try to stay flat so the gas disperses and doesn't cause much pain.  Also, you obviously won't be able to lift your DD but no stooping/bending/crouching, etc for awhile until you heal.  Take the pain pills if you're in a lot of pain, but if you can handle going without them do it... they will cause constipation which is much harder to use your abs for anything.  I hope I'm not scaring you, it really wasn't that bad of a surgery... I had it on a Friday and went back to work on Wednesday.  Just take it easy, sleep it off, and you'll be back to yourself in no time!  :) 

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    Here are my unsolicited tips... Stick out tongue  Wear loose fitting clothes (yoga-like pants) tomorrow!!!  You don't want anything tight on the incisions and you'll likely be bloated.  If they use gas to inflate your abdomen (my RE didn't), I've heard it's useful to have heating pads to put on your shoulders since the gas will rise upward into your shoulders once you sit/stand... in this case, it's also best to try to stay flat so the gas disperses and doesn't cause much pain.  Also, you obviously won't be able to lift your DD but no stooping/bending/crouching, etc for awhile until you heal.  Take the pain pills if you're in a lot of pain, but if you can handle going without them do it... they will cause constipation which is much harder to use your abs for anything.  I hope I'm not scaring you, it really wasn't that bad of a surgery... I had it on a Friday and went back to work on Wednesday.  Just take it easy, sleep it off, and you'll be back to yourself in no time!  :) 

    This is excellent advice!  I also couldn't drive until they did the follow up.  I was really tired the first day after my surgery, but after that, I healed really easily.  Oh and my RE did use the gas, but I never got the shoulder pain at all.....weird.  I did take the week off, but could have easily gone back to work a few days earlier.

  • imageSunshine05:

    I have endometriosis and had to have a lap a couple years ago... I already can feel it growing back, so I'm sure I'll have to have another in the next year or so.  If you have any questions/concerns about the procedure, feel free to PM me or page me on here or the IF board.  We have been TTC #1 for 5 years now.  I have endo, thyroid issues, and PCOS.  I know IF is a hard pill to swallow, but I figure that at least if you can put a name on it you can go from there.  Good luck tomorrow, hope everything goes smoothly! 

    Here are my unsolicited tips... Stick out tongue  Wear loose fitting clothes (yoga-like pants) tomorrow!!!  You don't want anything tight on the incisions and you'll likely be bloated.  If they use gas to inflate your abdomen (my RE didn't), I've heard it's useful to have heating pads to put on your shoulders since the gas will rise upward into your shoulders once you sit/stand... in this case, it's also best to try to stay flat so the gas disperses and doesn't cause much pain.  Also, you obviously won't be able to lift your DD but no stooping/bending/crouching, etc for awhile until you heal.  Take the pain pills if you're in a lot of pain, but if you can handle going without them do it... they will cause constipation which is much harder to use your abs for anything.  I hope I'm not scaring you, it really wasn't that bad of a surgery... I had it on a Friday and went back to work on Wednesday.  Just take it easy, sleep it off, and you'll be back to yourself in no time!  :) 

    Hey! Thanks for all the info. I am sorry it has been 5 years. That's a long time.

    I believe he will be using gas. I had heard about the shoulder thing and will make sure to use a heating pad. After talking to a few girls who had lap, I decided to take the rest of the week off. I plan to return to work on Monday. I hope that gives me enough time.

    Thanks again for the info. I am already scared so you didn't do too much more damage! Wink

    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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  • Sunny, I also wanted to add that I lurk on IF from time to time. Your siggy makes me laugh every time. Sometimes its just what I need when I am feeling down. (re "others not so much")
    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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    TWINS!! EDD 10/25/2011
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  • imagesoon2Bmrs.AGEE:
    imageSunshine05:

    I have endometriosis and had to have a lap a couple years ago... I already can feel it growing back, so I'm sure I'll have to have another in the next year or so.  If you have any questions/concerns about the procedure, feel free to PM me or page me on here or the IF board.  We have been TTC #1 for 5 years now.  I have endo, thyroid issues, and PCOS.  I know IF is a hard pill to swallow, but I figure that at least if you can put a name on it you can go from there.  Good luck tomorrow, hope everything goes smoothly! 

    Here are my unsolicited tips... Stick out tongue  Wear loose fitting clothes (yoga-like pants) tomorrow!!!  You don't want anything tight on the incisions and you'll likely be bloated.  If they use gas to inflate your abdomen (my RE didn't), I've heard it's useful to have heating pads to put on your shoulders since the gas will rise upward into your shoulders once you sit/stand... in this case, it's also best to try to stay flat so the gas disperses and doesn't cause much pain.  Also, you obviously won't be able to lift your DD but no stooping/bending/crouching, etc for awhile until you heal.  Take the pain pills if you're in a lot of pain, but if you can handle going without them do it... they will cause constipation which is much harder to use your abs for anything.  I hope I'm not scaring you, it really wasn't that bad of a surgery... I had it on a Friday and went back to work on Wednesday.  Just take it easy, sleep it off, and you'll be back to yourself in no time!  :) 

    Hey! Thanks for all the info. I am sorry it has been 5 years. That's a long time.

    I believe he will be using gas. I had heard about the shoulder thing and will make sure to use a heating pad. After talking to a few girls who had lap, I decided to take the rest of the week off. I plan to return to work on Monday. I hope that gives me enough time.

    Thanks again for the info. I am already scared so you didn't do too much more damage! Wink

    Okay, good!  I just wanted to share some helpful tips.  It really wasn't bad, although it will certainly range based on what they find and remove.  My surgery lasted about 3 hours and I was in recovery for awhile, moved to a room and when I could pee I could leave!  ;-)  You'll feel some tugging/pulling sensations at the incisions (I had 3 along bikini line and 1 in belly button... completely invisible now!) but it went away in a couple weeks.  Also no sex for at least 2 weeks so you don't chance infection.  That's all I can think of!  :)

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  • I was told all my incisions would be in my belly button and there would be one maybe two. He did say if he found something that he would take care of it right then. We shall see. Hmmmmm...about waiting for 2 weeks though. I specifically asked if this would hinder TTC around O time and the nurse said no. I will be on CD5 tomorrow so 2 weeks would put me past O. I might have to double check this tomorrow. Thanks for bringing it up!

    You're awesome! Thanks!

    DD born 8/24/07
    TTC #2 since 4/09
    Unexplained Secondary IF
    *****************************
    4 failed rounds of clomid ~ 4 failed IUIs ~ 1 m/c
    2/3/11: IUI #5 - Femara/Follistim/Ovidrel/Crinone = BFP (2/14)!!!
    Beta #1 (12dpiui): 53 Beta #2 (14dpiui): 203 Beta #3 (20dpiui): 3932 Beta #4 (28dpiui): 60,775
    1st U/S (3/3): 2 sacs & yolks 2nd U/S (3/8) 2 heartbeats-TWINS!
    Baby A:6w6d HR 131 Baby B:6w4d HR 124
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  • Hmm... I had mine done on CD8 and they specifically said we'd be out that cycle.  I've confirmed this with several others on the IF board and they all said it was too high a risk of infection.  Definitely check with your doc and see what they say, but I'd rather take a month off (especially if you are still sore!) than risk it. 

    Just saw what you said about my siggy... lol, glad it can make you smile!  I love it myself... I feel like doing that many days!  ;-)  Didn't know if you lurked often but penguins are the IF board's mascot.  If you've seen March of the Penguins, you know how much they go through hell and back just for one little egg.  Both partners equally sharing in the journey.  It seemed fitting.  :)

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  • imageSunshine05:

    penguins are the IF board's mascot.  If you've seen March of the Penguins, you know how much they go through hell and back just for one little egg.  Both partners equally sharing in the journey.  It seemed fitting.  :)

    I always wondered what the significance of the Penguins on IF were for....I'm on SAIF now.  That is sooo sweet!

  • I'll be sending T&Ps your way!
  • Oh Lindsey! Prayers will be said for you all day tomorrow! Let us know if we can do anything!
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  • Oh girl, you definitely have my T&P! You have been so strong through this & I'm proud of you!!! 
  • aubie96aubie96 member
    Good luck and prayers said Lindsey!!
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