I dont like to talk about personal things with my mom normally. We dont see eye-to-eye and she doesnt believe in medicine (im a RN), so we dont agree on much. My parent paid a couple credit cards off for me before we built our house and I pay them monthly for the money that I owe them. I have been having trouble making the payments to them as our IF is completely draining us of all funds because we are OOP. My parents have been letting on that they think we are being irresponsible with money because we arent paying them on time. For the past year we have been saying "if next cycle isnt it then we will tell them".... well I broke down and told. It was awkward and hard and my mom doesnt understand the urgency that we are in treatment now but at least she knows. We will see what happens from here....
and why do I instantly ball my eyes out when I have to come out and tell someone about IF?!
Re: Told my mom about our IF today
Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
FET #1 April 2011= BFN
FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138
Living After Losing
because it's emotional and tough to deal with and it's not supposed to be this difficult.
Hang in there....I hope you have success this cycle!!
Coming out is never easy - especially when you're spilling your guts to someone who doesn't get it at all. I'm glad you finally were able to get it off of your chest.
(((hugs)))
Unexplained Infertility
After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!
TTC #2
After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!
Because it's incredibly emotional and you don't deserve to go thru it! Let me know if you want to talk. I'll be online until about 11
xoxo
TTC since August 2008
IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
"Let it go, this too shall pass."