Thank you, ladies, for all your love and support. DH and I spent some time talking about it, and I feel better. We have more embryos than last time and they are from healthier sperm. We knew this would be a possibility, but it was a shock for me to have the results be so jolting. I am at peace and am a bit excited about moving forward. I was worried to some extent about how to choose which embryos if it were the case that we had mediocre embryos from DH and stellar ones from DS. To some extent I am happy that the decision was made for us, and I have the closure that I felt I needed after the failed IVF cycle in January. Perhaps he will not have a genetic connection, but that does not change how great of a dad he will be. Thank you for being there for me!
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Re: Update: Fert report in
You are so right! Love doesn't have to do with DNA, its all from the heart.
(((hugs)))
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
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Keeping you, your DH and your embies in my thoughts and prayers!
Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
There is so much more to being a father than donating the DNA.
I'm sure your dh is going to be an amazing father.
Good luck hon!!!
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After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!
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After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!
There is so much strength in this post! It warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes!
GL!
I'm glad you're feeling better. I can imagine even though you'd made the decision to use ds there is still so much hope for some embryos with the connection to both of you.
I hope the embryos you do have grow super strong!
Oh, hon...I missed your OP (just went back and read it) this morning. I'm sorry this didn't turn out the way you hoped - but...as you said...this will not change how great of a dad your DH will be, and how great of a mom you will be. You both have the love in your hearts for a child....we all do...otherwise we certainly wouldn't go through all the stuff we do!
Prayers are still being said for you for this cycle....I hope this is the one for you!!! Good luck...
Marrisa
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awe, so happy you are feeling better. GL at transfer~!!!
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Thanks, sourpop! How are you feeling? You are 10 days away from the big day!