TTC After a Loss

First RE Appointment Tomorrow

I am very nervous because I don't know what to expect and, although we have not been trying very long in the grand scheme of things, I am terrified this is just the beginning. At the same time I am hopeful and glad to be doing something, even if it's just getting a second opinion that two m/c in a row is just bad luck. I am anxious to get the green light to try again (hoping the third time will be the charm), especially if I can do so with some reason for a little more hope for a good outcome. But I will of course wait as long as he says I need to or as long as tests/treatments require. I hate being so conflicted...I don't know how to feel! Anyway, I hope to be back tomorrow night feeling better about things than I have the last 10 days. Any positive vibes along those lines would be much appreciated!

Re: First RE Appointment Tomorrow

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    GL hope all goes well!
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  • Sending you positive vibes for tomorrow.  I hope your two losses were just bad luck and that you get the green light soon.  I find it helps to make a list of questions ahead of time when I'm nervous about an appointment.  I hope you can update us tomorrow with a plan that works for you & DH!
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  • Good luck!  I hope you get a great plan.
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  • GL! Huge hugs to you for taking this huge and scary step.

    I was sooo nervous before my RE appointment from the moment that I made it til the moment we went to it. If possible, take DH, it will make it soo much better. The RE will probably start you with blood tests and maybe clomid..or maybe not since you got preg on your own.. Did your ob refer you or are you going on your own? Remember, REs are better at getting you KU and OBs are good at keeping you KU. I think once you go and just see what he has to say, you will feel sooo much better.

    Lots of positive T&Ps going out to you!

  • I totally understand I go in 12 days. It is very scary! I hope he offers lots of answers!
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