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Sex Routine

Do you and DH have a sex routine?  We try to mix it up sometimes but more and more we have the same routine.  We just both know what the other likes so we just cut to the end game most nights lately.

I almost always have an orgasm so I am not complaining per se but next week we will def. be having some non-routine hotel sex!

TTC since 07/2009
Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

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    Our routine varies. We have a set of something like 5 separate routines if that makes sense. It all depends on how much energy we have. Big Smile
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    We've definitely been in a routine lately.  I always have an orgasm, yes, but MH is so efficient at this point that it's less fun.  I'd love him to change things up, surprise me, etc.  When I try to change things up he sometimes asks "what are you doing?" which kills the mood for me instantly. 
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    Week sex, yes. It is, get in and get it done.

    Friday night & Saturday sex is more free-style

    Have fun, I love hotel sex.

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    *sigh* I'm with you.  It depends on our energy level but some serious routines going on.  I don't O very easily and DH does so it can be a problem.  Hoping to switch it up when we're not so sexed out.

    The post about the we-vibe has me thinking.  We haven't tried toys before.  I know, vanilla.

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    I would say, uh, pretty much the same exact thing you said, md!  Haha...what else is new soul sista?Stick out tongue
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    imageGingham:
    I would say, uh, pretty much the same exact thing you said, md!  Haha...what else is new soul sista?Stick out tongue

    I love being your twinsie!

    Did you gut sushi tonight too???

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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    imagemdluv21:

    imageGingham:
    I would say, uh, pretty much the same exact thing you said, md!  Haha...what else is new soul sista?Stick out tongue

    I love being your twinsie!

    Did you gut sushi tonight too???

    DH JUST got home so we will be going after he walks Lucy.  Freakin finally!  Maybe I will ttyl if you are still on, but if not have a great night!!  xoxoxo

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    We sort of do. We have two positions that usually always work, then a variety of them that only work sometimes. We like to mix it up, but if they don't work, then we go back to the two "for sure" positions.

    Hooray for non-routine hotel sex!!

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    imageGingham:
    imagemdluv21:

    imageGingham:
    I would say, uh, pretty much the same exact thing you said, md!  Haha...what else is new soul sista?Stick out tongue

    I love being your twinsie!

    Did you gut sushi tonight too???

    DH JUST got home so we will be going after he walks Lucy.  Freakin finally!  Maybe I will ttyl if you are still on, but if not have a great night!!  xoxoxo

    Thanks sweets!  We are going to put in Avatar soon but I will be off and on all night.

    Have a good din din!

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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    imageMissLadyTay:
    We've definitely been in a routine lately.  I always have an orgasm, yes, but MH is so efficient at this point that it's less fun.  I'd love him to change things up, surprise me, etc.  When I try to change things up he sometimes asks "what are you doing?" which kills the mood for me instantly. 

    Yep this is us...if I try and go "off course"  it is like he gets all confused.

    I'm with you - a little surprised never hurt anyone!

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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    imagemdluv21:

    imageMissLadyTay:
    We've definitely been in a routine lately.  I always have an orgasm, yes, but MH is so efficient at this point that it's less fun.  I'd love him to change things up, surprise me, etc.  When I try to change things up he sometimes asks "what are you doing?" which kills the mood for me instantly. 

    Yep this is us...if I try and go "off course"  it is like he gets all confused.

    I'm with you - a little surprised never hurt anyone!

    For realsies.  I swear, he is adorable, but so irritating sometimes.  When your wife tries a new move, the correct response is not to stop her, give her a confused head tilt, and ask "what are you doing?"  The correct response is to cheerfully go with the flow.  Harumph.

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    We were in a routine so I started having Facial Friday's and Swallowing Saturday's lol. It's a bit weird for some but DH enjoys it. He doesn't feel like I'm only using him to go half on a baby with me.
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    imageRhonie82:
    We were in a routine so I started having Facial Friday's and Swallowing Saturday's lol. It's a bit weird for some but DH enjoys it. He doesn't feel like I'm only using him to go half on a baby with me.

    Facial Fridays, eh?  Would that be a facial for you or one for him?

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    "What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose." - Henry Ward Beecher
    SAIF/PAIF Welcome
    Lots of love and luck to my PAIF/3T/IF Veteran ladies, especially my dear friend Zookie. Congrats to Papps, Teach84 and Starbuck on their little ones.
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    imageRhonie82:
    We were in a routine so I started having Facial Friday's and Swallowing Saturday's lol. It's a bit weird for some but DH enjoys it. He doesn't feel like I'm only using him to go half on a baby with me.

    Love it and so true.My DH has Boobsday.   

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    imagemdluv21:

    imageRhonie82:
    We were in a routine so I started having Facial Friday's and Swallowing Saturday's lol. It's a bit weird for some but DH enjoys it. He doesn't feel like I'm only using him to go half on a baby with me.

    Facial Fridays, eh?  Would that be a facial for you or one for him?

    Facial for me. Embarrassed

    Lapband wife wanting a baby since 2008. 162lbs lost...30 more to go.
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