My follow up apt update

Shemico

I had my d&c follow up apt with the RE yesterday.

She gave us the PGD (IVF) rundown. 20K for about the same chances to take home a baby. Takes out the genetic issues but you have the added might not get pg and normal m/c risk.

So thats basically out.... we really don't have the cash plus if we could pull it together it wouldnt do much.

She said if we did try again, we only have to wait one cycle which is good. I also asked about trying without monitoring. She wants me to track ovulation and start progesterone at 3 days after. I'm not sure I want to, I have a big hunch it was getting in the way of geting ku, beging that I finally got ku again the month I stoped it.

Also, if I am still spotting in another week to come in for b/w and u/s but that seems to have finally stoped today.

DH is still not on board with trying again. I really want to, I'd not wait the 1 cycle if it were my choice....

 

bbhalphen

Good luck and big hugs.  I'm about to post a very similar follow up appt.  I'm sorry we're having to go through this.

surfergirlkona

((hugs)) that is a lot to take in.  I hope that DH comes around soon so that you can try again.  I am so sorry ((hugs))

butterfly843

((hugs)) sending good luck and hope dh is on board soon.

KristysRedBarn

I'm sorry.  That's a lot to hear and deal with.  I hope you guys can talk things out and figure out what will work for both of you.