A) She set a bad tone when we first met and she brought up DH's ex-wife almost constantly throughout the entire weekend.
She can't even remember how old DD is and seems to put zero thought into her.
C) She hasn't visited in 2 years. (We drove part of the way to her house last summer but had to turn around because DH's friend died, and she didn't want to reschedule).
She's coming to visit soon for a 5-day stay and just looked at her itinerary. She arrives at 10 p.m. and leaves at 7 a.m., meaning she's basically only here for 3 days. Hallelujah!