My dear sweet husband

Lorange-8

So it's been a month since our loss and he hasn't been able to talk about his feelings or about Farrah.  Well I work with his best friend and maybe told him to call him and try and make him talk. Come to find out my husband best friend and his ex-girlfriend have been thru a loss as well.  Neither me or my husband knew about it. Well so he called and talked to my husband today and got him to open up! I'm so happy he has someone to talk to know.  His best friend told me about how my husband feels and I want to help him thru it as well but I don't want to get his friend in trouble.  My husband feels like he caused me to loss the baby. But I've told my husband it wasn't either one of our faults, and even the doctors said there was an infection and not could have been done.  I love him and it makes me happy that he has someone to talk to but makes me sad at the same time because i don't want him to blame himself!

Zed58

That is great that he has someone he can share with and open up to. I think they try so hard to be strong and "normal" for us, that they aren't able to address their own thoughts/feelings. I'm hoping that when we get home on Sat that dh can bond with his cuz's hubby during this time. They both need a guy to relate to I think.

jerriesgirl

I'm glad he found someone to talk to!  Keeping these feelings bottled up is not a good thing.

millejj1

Glad he started to open up!

Amanda02a

I'm so glad he has a good friend to talk to!  It is so selfish, but sometimes I forget that DH suffered a loss too and he needs support.    

elizabeth&james

That's a huge step to take. Makes me think I should try to give my DH a chance to open up too- he puts so much time into supporting me that I don't actually even know how much he thinks about it for himself or struggles with it. Thanks for sharing!