I haven't heard from him in OVER 2 months regarding Rylen. Then I FINALLY get a CS check from him (after him skipping 2 court appointments...) and then the next night at 1AM I get a message from him on AIM asking how the babys doing. I didn't even respond. I LOVE how he just comes around once I start getting CS from him. ***.
Re: Hm. :/ Really, DB?
Maybe he thinks one has to do with the other. He had to scrounge up enough money to pay CS to be able to ask about his child.
Who knows. Hopefully he is able to get it together and be a good father figure your LO.
Any chance he felt guilty about not having paid and assumed you wouldn't give him the time of day until he paid up?
It sucks that he doesn't seem interested, but from his perspective this isn't all skittles and unicorns either. Emotionally, it can be tough to love your child who don't rarely see and not have a workable relationship with the mother.
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