weird question (tmi??)

xxbabycakesxx · April 2010

ive had 3 sex dreams since i got my bfp last wk. this morning i actually came because of my sex dream! but i woke up right after the dream because i got this terrible cramping in my lower stomach. it was more uncomfortable than painful but it did hurt. i had to curl up into a ball and i started sweating. i was almost at the point where i wanted to cry and wake up my husband! but the cramping passed after 2 or 3 min. has anyone experienced this after having an orgasm?? theres no blood coming out or anything...

my other question is: are you still having sex with your s/o? i havent since my bfp. im terrified itll do something bad. i know i know i know its ok to have sex throughout your pregnancy and my dr also said it was fine. but, like ive said many times before, im going nuts and ill keep on going nuts until i hear a heartbeat at my next appt (which is in june. JUNE?!?!)

ambermum5 · April 2010

Well that is weird, but normal. I don't dream so I couldn't tell you about that but the cramping probabably is normal since you came. Right? MY DH and are still having sex, thats actually how I found out I was preggo (I spotted right after). With my son, and this seems kind of strange, I was told until 12 weeks you should use condoms for whatever reason.

xxbabycakesxx · April 2010

thank you thank you thank you! a million times thank you for replying and making me feel better.

kat81 · April 2010

You are fine for sex. We haven't had sex yet because BIL is visiting and because DH's job is INSANELY crazy (yes, bad time for BIL to visit) right now, but he's about to pass a big deadline, then we will again. I hope that we can get in some good love-making before m/s hits hard.

xxbabycakesxx · April 2010

CRFJAG:
I've had a few "sleepgasms" since my BFP and they were quite wonderful, lol. But, the first time I did O I suffered from some uncfomfortable cramps--- ever since I've been fine. But, no sex yet.... I haven't had any spotting and I'm so nervous that it will cause spotting and freak me out. I know it's safe, but I'm just more concerned about my irrational freak outs!

i feeeeel your emotional pain!!! how is your s/o taking it? my husband has been ok with the no sex thing so far but its only been about a wk. im sure he'll go crazy soon.