Thank you so much everyone for your kind words! I feel so lucky that I have a place like this that I can come and vent without being flamed or given 'bad' advice!
I'm thinking that his allergy is chocolate.
I have eliminated all major forms of dairy from my diet (not going
crazy reading labels). But the other day, without thinking I ate the
ears off my dark chocolate Easter bunny Whoops. I noticed a
difference in his eczema and poop within a few hours. All that after it
was actually FINALLY about 99% cleared up! We haven't seen an allergist
because it's really only been a month or two and I wanted to try
elimination first. Also, he doesn't have bloody stool and up until last
night it didn't really appear to be bothering him.
Last night after I wrote this, H slept for almost 4 hours (I'm crediting the Benadryl) and I did get some good shut-eye. Dh really can't help me because he gets up for work around 5:30am and H would just scream anyway...not worth that-KWIM?Anyway...just wanted to say thank you