I HATE MY JOB (Vent)

october77

ok so before I loose it I need to get this out!

I'm in my 2ww and I'm about to take my pg test on Friday and I know your suppoed to relax and take it easy and all but how can someone do that with a bunch of no good insensitive ahole men for bosses.

They (MEN) don't get anything...I asked that they do me the favor and take it easy on my for 2weeks so I can do what I am supposed to be doing and try to get pregnant but no...i have an assistant who blows up and yells and acts all unprofessional..so she's yelling...I'm trying to calm her down and not yell at her...I ask my boss if he will listen to me for a minute so I can explain the situation to him so he can tell me what he thinks I should do and how I can handle the situation...but no...he rolls h is eyes and asks if I can go and talk to someone else. I mean are you serious??? I've been with this company for 4 years and you can't give me 5 minutes to talk and calm down and help her calm down/

How much am I in trouble here...am I completely ruining myself during this period that I've waitng so long to be at? I think I cried here every day last week and I was fine unitl this drama today. PLEASE HELP ME!

mainesmichelle

I am so sorry that you are going thru this..  I was in the same boat a few yrs ago working 60+ hrs a week and no help from my boss.  I finally left my positoin after 6yrs and landed where I am currently. I LOVR LOVR LOVE my job.It was the best and most scariest decision I have made so far.

Good Luck..

october77

I know there is no easy job out there...but you don't even know the half of it...they keep using the economy as an excuse to not give raises..but they of course continue to pile up the work and expect you to do it all.

It just sucks when you've been somewhere so long and have constantly stuck through everything...and stood by them that they can't even give you 5 minutes to talk, and to not even be a little bit nice about it...he rolled his eyes asked if I could talk to someone else or talk about it tomorrow...grrrrrr

Thanks for listening....I need to make some major changes soon!

st.augbride

Sorry you're dealing with that. I am in the process of fleeing a nightmare job. I was scared at first, but have now landed a few amazing options that couldn't be any more perfect if I designed them myself. So definitely network and put those feelers out there if this place makes you miserable. It does affect your health and it isn't worth it. Best of luck!

BMWwife

I'm sorry!! IF sucks enough you dont need your job to suck on top of it!!

october77

Thanks for all of your sweet comments ladies! After a very restless sleepless night I'm feeling just ok today...i'm praying I didn't stress myself out too bad during the 2ww! 2 more days and I can breathe again!