12dpo, BFN and MF is F'in with me

redstars93

When I saw the stark white BFN my first reaction was, "well, that's just wrong". I "feel" pregnant. And yes, I know how crazy that sounds.

My temp went back up, my breasts are so sore that I can't sleep on my stomach, I have heartburn from hell, I'm super bloated, I peed twice during the middle of the night and I've thrown up twice since last night (I NEVER throw up). Ever. WTF. I'm not fishing. I'm just fed up with the whole "am I or am I not?" thing. Blah.

I know that people say they didn't get their BFP until 13dpo but I always assumed they got a "kind of faint line" at 12dpo or earlier and just counted it as negative.

Did anyone here actually get a starkravingnegative the day before you got a BFP?

writergirl5786

i don't have advice or anything like that but wanted you to know that i am keeping EVERYTHING crossed for you and hopin and praying that you get that BFP super soon!

EmKo0210

Last time I wasn't charting, but I think I tested 3-4 days before AF was due and got a definite BFN,  I waited two days and tested and got a BFP.....so it's possible I guess???

::fingers crossed that you will still get your BFP this cycle!!::

GuppyAmy

I think it's not over until AF shows her ugly Beotch face! So I'll cross my finger for you.

matts_love

Aren't they always starkravingnegative before they are positive?  Don't sweat it just yet.  I'm crossing my fingers for you!

redstars93

matts_love:

Aren't they always starkravingnegative before they are positive?  Don't sweat it just yet.  I'm crossing my fingers for you!

One would think but.... I'm one of those loons that breaks apart the test and looks at it from all angles while standing on my head spinning a plate on my big toe.

Under those circumstances you can sometimes see a superfaint line that may or may not be a positive or an evap line.

And with this post, I confirm my brand of "crazy".

 

eminbmore

With DS I had a stark white, very clear BFN at 12 dpo, and a glaring positive at 14 dpo (I didn't test at 13 dpo - I couldn't deal with another BFN).  It can happen! ::fingers crossed for you::

mdm2137

I got a "very" negative at 12 dpo with FMU and then a positive at 13 dpo in the afternoon. So it's definitely still possible. I hope you get a BFP tomorrow!

BeachCole

I had that, yes. Starkass white at 10, 11, 12 dpo. NIce line at 13 dpo. I know that you know your body, and if you feel like something is up and that you are, it's hard not to trust that. I hope you get a line tomorrow!

DoingItRight

I still have hope for you.  Hopefully you will get your bfp and all these symptoms won't be for nothing...

nurseJK

Ohhhh IDK! Good luck though!!!

KeriMac

redstars93:

matts_love:

Aren't they always starkravingnegative before they are positive?  Don't sweat it just yet.  I'm crossing my fingers for you!

One would think but.... I'm one of those loons that breaks apart the test and looks at it from all angles while standing on my head spinning a plate on my big toe.

Under those circumstances you can sometimes see a superfaint line that may or may not be a positive or an evap line.

And with this post, I confirm my brand of "crazy".

This is totally me!!!