A really good friend of mine sent me a facebook message that they lost their baby. She was somewhere around 18 weeks pregnant and was looking forward to finding out what they were going to have. I feel absolutely horrible for them, but I'm trying to give her space. I sent her a message back saying if they needed anything or if she needs to talk (I've had a miscarriage before) that we're here.
Re: my friend miscarried
Yeah, that's what I'm doing. I know that me just having a baby could be hurtful. It just sucks when you want to comfort someone because you've been there, but can't because you now have what they lost. I just feel awful.