TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Guess what I played vball against last night!?!

A gal that HAD to be at least 30 weeks pregnant.  Seriously!?!  I could understand playing non-competitive....but I play in a competitive leauge.  There are tons of hard balls coming right at you.  Oh yeah, and she was all decked out in her materity Coors Light shirt.....grrrrrrrrrrrrr!

As soon as I found out I was pg, I stopped playing, and still lost the baby.  I would never, ever dream of playing that late in the pregnancy, just too much of a risk that something is going to happen........

Vent over

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Re: Guess what I played vball against last night!?!

  • There aren't even words...the Coors Light T-Shirt kills me too!  I teach dance and I stopped when I found out I was pg and that is no where near as active as Vball.  ::sigh::
  • I think you can and should be active while pg, but competitive volleyball is too much.  The risk for injury is high.  The Coors Light shirt is just wrong.
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  • I guess what you do doesn't really matter.  I was training for a race when I got pregnant last year and didn't stop.  My mother hinted that that was probably why I had my loss or at least it contributed to it.

    It's been weighing on my mind since last May. 

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    I guess what you do doesn't really matter.  I was training for a race when I got pregnant last year and didn't stop.  My mother hinted that that was probably why I had my loss or at least it contributed to it.

    It's been weighing on my mind since last May. 

    That's completely unfair for your mom to hint at....but I know where you're coming from.  I stopped playing just as soon as I got a BFP and still felt guilty about playing after my loss, even though I would have only been 4-5 weeks along.  I actually stopped playing for almost a year since we were TTC and I didn't want to do that again, but after a year, I decided I needed to stop focusing so much on ttc and just do it. 

    But I think it proves that it just doesn't matter.

    And thanks ladies for understanding.  My DH thought I was crazy for being upset about it.

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  • Blah. Yeah competitive would crazy to play when pg.
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • That is just crazy. I love playing volleyball, but wouldn't play when pregnant. Dh got upset with me playing badmitten before we found out we were pregnant because I tripped and fell on my butt. I told him that fall probably helped our babies stick.

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