Ok, first, let me say I am still happy and refreshed and revitalized from my glorious weekend. There's really not much that can suck the wind out of my sails right now, and that's a good thing. It's been a long, long time since I've felt like this.
But, I have a "my friend is a dildo" moment that I just can't wait to share with you guys. So my friend who is currently pregnant, who knows about all our losses, and who I've mentioned has recently always had a total lamesauce excuse to not hang out? Well, DH hung out with her and her husband this weekend while I was gone (the boys are BFFs and work together, which is how she and I became such good - I thought - friends) So she asks DH how things are going for us and says how she does miss hanging out with me, but she just feels weird and awkward about it now. So, I win. I was right. That is the reason for the lame-o excuses.
But anyway, when she said that, DH responded that the worst possible thing she could be doing right now if she really does care is to be treating us differently.
I love him.
But she cried.
Hey, the truth hurts sometimes.
Re: Friend rant + DH rave
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Beautiful daughter born February 2011
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I'm SO glad you are refreshed from your weekend!
You totally deserved some time to enjoy yourself.
And way to go Mr. Colinda! He done good.
What a good DH! He said exactly the right thing. So good to just let her know the effect of her actions. Maybe she'll get it together now.
I'm glad you're baaaaaack!
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This. It is so great to have a DH who understands!
I was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt, but this makes total sense.
Why would someone think that you'll be better off not having a friend to hang out with. And if you're inviting her to hang out, obviously you're not that bothered by her pg. Ugh.
Or at least good at setting that aside, anyway.
I think the tiny bird should go crush her little ho.