I can't say anything to DH's family about anything without it causing issues! Will's cousin is in town for a few days (she's 19). Anytime she comes into town, no one besides my BIL and SIL see her because she stays with them the entire time because they don't work and do nothing but play rockband all day. And they let her drink. She came into town today and we went straight over to my inlaws to see her for a few and we were all joking that we'll never see her because BIL is the only one who has alcohol. Well, her mom said "oh well, he said they keep a dry house". DH said, "uh...since when???" Thne I mentioned that just last week he took home a case of beer from our house. Well, apparently his mom is so incredibly naive and believes he doesn't drink (FIL was an alcoholic for years, so she has no tolerance for drinkers). So she got all up in arms about it and said something to BIL today. So BIL is mad at me and goes to DH about why I was saying he drinks. Uh....he DOES! And he's 28 years old, he can!! I wasn't being a "tattle-tale" I seriously believed that my MIL really wasn't that dumb. My inlaws are stupid.