DH went out of town (through a city 2 hours from our home) Thursday through Sunday. Instead of me driving him to the airport and staying with his family while he was gone I chose to stay back at our apartment, which was fine with me because I was also in the middle of a horrid cold.
Flash to last night - DH gets home on Sunday night and after 20 minutes of being home he gets a phone call from his BIL confirming that BIL will drop off their two kids on Wednesday, they'll stay with us through Friday/Sat then DH and I will drive them back. After he gets off the phone I asked when he was planning on bringing me into this decision?? Which then set off a fight.
This week is spring break for DH, but the working world gets no spring break. In addition, I work a 40 hour a week job from home and although small, our 850 sq ft place isn't normally a big deal.
I go off on him asking where the kids will sleep? How will I be able to work? How are we going to entertain them? etc.Then he chimes in about him being frustrated because I won't go to his family (ie i stayed behind this weekend) and they can't come here. I'm sorry but that's just a stupid statement.
So yeah, a fight fight fight, topped off with a speech from DH at the end saying that although he doesn't "keep track" we see my family way more than his and blah... wtf man.
Might I also mention that we moved 6 states away from my family for his school and live only 2 hours from his family that we now see pretty often.