And I had a great time! Aubrey and I met up with my friend Sara (former roommate) and spent the day with her. We caught up, saw some people, and laughed a lot. J came down to where we were and hung out for a few hours, and some other people met up with us for a bit. I was glad it was more of a group thing so there was no pressure either way. There was a little flirting back and forth, which was nice. It's nice to feel human after being home all the time with Aubrey.
As for the J - I don't really know. We had a good time sort of catching up. I would definitely go on an "alone" date with him... but not with Aubrey there. I'm hoping to work out a night in the next couple weeks to leave her with my parents so I could visit again alone. Thanks for the advice, ladies!