What would you do re:birthday gifts from h's family

inbetween

So H still isn't talking to anyone in his family. So, everyone ends up talking to me to see how dd is doing.

One of my bils has asked if dd needs anything specific that they would like to send her something.

She doesn't need anything, but they are sending something anyways.

Do I send the gift with her to H's house since it's his family, or do I keep it here where she is all of the time?

wendyld

I think either way is fine.  If they wanted it to go to his house specifically, they probably would have sent it to him.

inbetween

That's the thing. He won't answer his families calls or emails. He hasn't talked to them since he left me. None of them know where he lives in order to send anything to him!

blondnearby

If they send it to your home then you keep it for DD at your house.  Besides you have primary custody, correct?

inbetween

Yes I do. He can't seem to figure out when he wants to see her. The schedule he currently wants, would put him seeing her for 23 hours a month.

cabbage5215

BD tries to give me everything that anyone gives him for LO because I have her the majority of the time.  Plus, they send stuff to me.

I have so much stuff I don't take anything.  I tell him to keep it at his house for when LO is there and I give him any gifts from his family.